Sometimes in Life…
February 4, 2009
“Sometimes in life, you need others to give you a chance.”
“Sometimes in life, you need to give others a chance.”
“Sometimes in life, you need to give yourself a chance.”
To Real-ise a potential. To take the journey Life takes you.
Regret is “What was wrong” and “What had been”;
Greater Regret is “What could be right” and “What could have been”.
Deliberate. Think. Feel. Believe. Trust. The longest and hardest way in the world is to go one full circle and come back to the same spot. But who is to say you have emerged any less or are none the richer? Whether to a different spot or back to the same spot… Let Life take you… Sometimes in Life… you need to give yourself a chance.
Yeah.. That’s the reason y it’s important to forgive and forget. Read your other entries for today. Wow, so much thoughts in a day.
Glad to see you have a much brighter perspective in life. Although it’s normal to feel that everything is bleak (cos we’re only human), in a matter of time, it’s what we hold dearly most in our hearts that would break all boundaries.
CHeer!!
jiayou!!
Agreed. In life, we have to give others and ourselves a chance.
Sometimes by giving others a chance, it is also to give yourself a chance too.
Everyone learns together. Journey process not only consist of ourselves.
Everyone have regrets. But if we have tried our best, put in effort, there shouldn’t be regrets, although we might think that we should have done this and that to make it better. But people who never even try at all should feel regretted.
No harm trying, so why not giving ourselves a chance?
Every circle makes a better you, makes you closer to your goal. Most of the time in life, condition doesn’t allow us a chance. =)
omg! i just realised you got blog song!
Cannonball~!!!!! <333333
No one is perfect. We ought to give others and ourself a chance when one make mistakes.
To forgive and forget. =)
I do believe in 2nd chance!
The bible says, love your enemy.
Sounds tuff but its better to have 1 more friend then 1 more enemy isn’t it.
We all have regrets but the main thing is to learn from the past, learn from the mistakes and make ourselves to a better and a stronger one!
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery. today is a gift, thats why we call it the present!
I totally agreed sometimes in life you need others to give you a chance and also need to give yourself a chance
The greatest regrets in life is what you want to say but was too afraid to say out
You may feel disappointed if you say out but you are doomed if you never give yourself a chance
A quote to share:You never know until you try
Life only once so live it :-)
yeaps! if one doesn’t give him/herself a chance, how else would they want others to give them a chance. Even if you lend back on the same spot, you’ll know better how to progress from there now than before, bringing you a step further. Jiayou!! :D
SATO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3
oops! typo — *land
Just wondering, does all Lit major writes so well?
I’m really impressed by Elvin’s blog entries. =)
Hi, Elvin.. on this day u post this post something sad happen to me… untill now im still damn sad… i need someone to talk to but no one i can talk to…
“Sometimes in Life… you need to give yourself a chance.” and never gib up. Stay optimistic… Regret, makes one treasure. :)
Ups and downs are a part of life, don’t let them affect you in anyway.
For life is a bouquet of miracles, don’t let it just slip away.
In those moments of sorrow, don’t let go the little moments of joy.
Sometimes little things in life matters a lot.
Keep believing and never quit. There is something positive even when you are hardest hit.
Sometimes In Life …you can’t stay lost forever.
Yes, give yourself a chance (to try out) and give others a chance to know/help you (you know what I mean) … In life, sometimes, we do take a big round and end up in the same spot…it may seem ‘sad’ but in reality, it may not be so, cos, we ‘have been through it’ (if you know what I mean – we experience the journey).
Take Heart and smile.
Yeap…. In Life nothing is Fair & true Unpredictable. Thats y I agree with Chermayne that we must forgive n forget. To forget it maybe difficult for some us to do so but as time passes by, when all of us growing up day by day n maturity tends to allow us to do so.
I was looking through my photo album last month and i came across a pis of my gf & I. She had betrayed me be it in relationship,monetary terms & to the extend of taking my stuffs when i stayed with her few years back. I admit I was devastated & hated her to the core for i cant believe that this was the way she reciprocated to our friendship. But when i saw the pic, Memories of us laughing,sharing secrets,shopping,clubbing…etc all came back to me. And yes… I realised I missed her. The hatred had been diminished !
Ive given myself a chance to stay away from her which resulted in me forgiving her. Ive also given her a chance to realise her mistakes by losing a close friend so that she will learn from it & never to repeat it again. I heard from a friend that she’s waiting for my sms/calls & I’ll do it on her birthday which falls a day after Valentines’. I believe it’ll be the best present Im going to give her…!
Never to bear grudges…for life is short.
Ya. Always give chances to people… I do that too.
But someone really made me angry, haha, I will take action.
Ya. “What was wrong?”, “What had been?” always come in my ming after doing something and try not to repeat the same mistake again…
I agreed that sometime we must give people a chance and also give a chance to ourself.
And why sometime we hesitate to do so, cos we scare of being hurt again if the chance was not being cherished. The second time hurt will be much more terrible than the first one.
We’re always in dilemma.
Be happy! Cheer up! I will support u and the films u act. :)
Dearest Junxiong,
It’s a REAL JOY watching your shows each time.. I feel very honoured and happy, as this is the first time I view your blog.. After reading your posts, I can feel that you have really thought alot all these while.. I can see and sense how much efforts and feelings you have put in.. I wish to say, no matter what happens, I hope you will stay optimistic and happy forever, ok? I will always give my moral support in whatever you do..
May you live life to the fullest always..
With Warmest Regards,
Cailuan
Hey I read your interview on OMY. This might not help much, but still gonna say it. Cheer up! :) I personally like 9 Crimes by Damien Rice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cgqOSCgc8xc&feature=related
oh~~~i’ll support you la!
don’t be sad,
i belive that you can win
your gf heart’s back ,
okay???
elvin can you email me?
Those who never fall never learn. Which brings back the notion of life: giving people their greatest lesson by dealing them the unexpected in life. Humans are always caught by surprise. So at times, it is better to let nature takes its course.
It is inevitable that we slip and fall while taking our life’s lessons. Yes, here we give ourselves a chance to climb back up. At times, we should also learn to give others a chance to help you in the process. No man’s a lone island. Open your eyes and you will see wonders around you. Friends or family, they will be there when you need them the most. Enrich yourself with love and indulge in such comfortable atmosphere. No one will be the same anymore.
Whosoever wishes to know about the world must learn about it in its particular details.
Knowledge is not intelligence.
In searching for the truth is to be ready for the unexpected.
Change alone is unchanging.
The same road goes both up and down.
The beginning of a circle is also its end.
But the world says it: all is one.
And yet everything comes in season.