Comments on: Accommodate http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/ The Hour Before Dawn is Always the Darkest Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:27:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Nhung http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-2/#comment-8221 Nhung Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:30:38 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-8221 the only thing i know is while u are writing this u are in negative mood.is it right? the only thing i know is while u are writing this u are in negative mood.is it right?

]]> By: Eileen http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6640 Eileen Mon, 30 Nov 2009 08:11:40 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6640 being alone helps when you're especially down, don't feel like smiling and don't wish to have ppl saying you giving the sulky face. when you're in a group, no matter how upset you are, you still feel obligated to force a smile on your face, lest people say you're such a wet blanket. i like being alone for most of the time now, until i've learnt how to put that natural smile back on my face. things that i once thought i'd never be caught dead doing it alone, like eating out alone, watching movies alone, travelling overseas and shopping alone,etc. i've realise the pros of doing it. being alone helps when you’re especially down, don’t feel like smiling and don’t wish to have ppl saying you giving the sulky face. when you’re in a group, no matter how upset you are, you still feel obligated to force a smile on your face, lest people say you’re such a wet blanket.
i like being alone for most of the time now, until i’ve learnt how to put that natural smile back on my face.
things that i once thought i’d never be caught dead doing it alone, like eating out alone, watching movies alone, travelling overseas and shopping alone,etc. i’ve realise the pros of doing it.

]]> By: yu http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6570 yu Thu, 26 Nov 2009 18:17:49 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6570 totally agree, thats why, i m going overseas on my own, to get a breather from these hectic place, find myself, and not accomodating to others. =) totally agree, thats why, i m going overseas on my own, to get a breather from these hectic place, find myself, and not accomodating to others.

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]]> By: noob http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6279 noob Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:56:20 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6279 wow.. jiayou! be true to yourself, i like! :) wow.. jiayou! be true to yourself, i like! :)

]]> By: i'll be there http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6257 i'll be there Sun, 01 Nov 2009 21:41:24 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6257 I have always thought you're a super nice and humble guy until i read your blog lately. It seems to me you have changed, but I don't mean it in a bad way. Maybe you learnt something while in this industry that led the change in you? You have learnt not to be too nice and accomodating now? Isit the pressure and criticisms are getting way too strong for you to be nice? Actually its sad but good at the same time that you have learnt. But I really hope you are still the nice guy deep inside you. Or did I seen the wrong person? Is that you? I hope you do not lose yourself. Just be yourself, you do not really need to accomodate to others if you deem its not necessary. I am still learning too, in fact everyone is learning in their whole lives. We lose our innocence as we go as we grow, we get more complicated as we experience as we think, but we cannot lose our soul... blessings to all I have always thought you’re a super nice and humble guy until i read your blog lately. It seems to me you have changed, but I don’t mean it in a bad way. Maybe you learnt something while in this industry that led the change in you? You have learnt not to be too nice and accomodating now? Isit the pressure and criticisms are getting way too strong for you to be nice? Actually its sad but good at the same time that you have learnt. But I really hope you are still the nice guy deep inside you. Or did I seen the wrong person? Is that you? I hope you do not lose yourself. Just be yourself, you do not really need to accomodate to others if you deem its not necessary. I am still learning too, in fact everyone is learning in their whole lives. We lose our innocence as we go as we grow, we get more complicated as we experience as we think, but we cannot lose our soul… blessings to all

]]> By: Ven http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6254 Ven Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:10:15 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6254 I agree with the way you say about accommodating. It talks about how I am feeling right now, at this moment and over the months of my work life. I didn't know media industry is worst than i thought it could be. I hate to put up a fake face but i have to. I hate to smile when i am not happy but i have to. I dislike accommodating to people when i need sometime alone. My world now is just so lifeless, I want to have my life more vibrant, but it doesn't seems to work the way i wanted. My lifestyle now is getting worst and still i have to accommodate to the way i do not like. I am not sure how long i can hang in there...it just feels real bad. Anyway, I hope you be better soon. Take Care I agree with the way you say about accommodating.
It talks about how I am feeling right now, at this moment and over the months of my work life. I didn’t know media industry is worst than i thought it could be. I hate to put up a fake face but i have to. I hate to smile when i am not happy but i have to. I dislike accommodating to people when i need sometime alone. My world now is just so lifeless, I want to have my life more vibrant, but it doesn’t seems to work the way i wanted. My lifestyle now is getting worst and still i have to accommodate to the way i do not like. I am not sure how long i can hang in there…it just feels real bad. Anyway, I hope you be better soon. Take Care

]]> By: Wen http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2009/10/13/accomodate/comment-page-1/#comment-6249 Wen Sun, 01 Nov 2009 12:51:10 +0000 http://www.elvinng.net/blog/?p=724#comment-6249 yup. sometimes we just want to be on our own. it's not a bad thing... right? being too much around people can actually make us less independent, more reliant. i used to have a really really good friend whom im with almost 24/7. when i 'lost' her, it was almost like the end of the world... sometimes private time to ourselves helps us see things more clearly too. anyway keep going Elvin, we're all behind you. (: yup. sometimes we just want to be on our own. it’s not a bad thing… right? being too much around people can actually make us less independent, more reliant.

i used to have a really really good friend whom im with almost 24/7. when i ‘lost’ her, it was almost like the end of the world… sometimes private time to ourselves helps us see things more clearly too. anyway keep going Elvin, we’re all behind you. (:

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