Lies & Creation
February 6, 2010Some lies are necessary.
Most lies are not.
When you tell an unnecessary lie or deliberately create an impression of someone you are not, it would most probably backfire and come back to haunt you.
And the bubble will burst.
Because everything inside was Air.
sometimes lies is needed , but sometimes they use lies for wrong proposed.
Anyway dont think too much ,
GOD love you:)
Thanks..
now I understand the truth..
made me feel better.
Thanks once again..
Inevitably, both parties get hurt. The betrayal of trust. The truth will be out someday. Someone or some event will expose the lies. Cannot hide forever. What’s worse is that lies when told frequently becomes a bad habit.
That’s why it’s still the best to tell the truth most times. Also it’s how u want to tell the truth. Words can make or break a person. Depending on who says it.
sometimes it’s good not to think too much n too deep :) it’s saturday! Chill….
Once a lie is made, another lie is needed eventually. For good or bad, lies should be avoided. =)
Cheer up and supports from me [p/s: this is definitely not a lie, don't you worry!]
*smirks*
Manda
U ARE ANGRY?&*$^#!? R U WARNING SOMEONE?@#(*&^% TELL ME ABOUT IT?#$%@^&*)
O BUT ELVIN I MUST AGREE..A LIE IS A LIE…I HATE HYPOCRITES…LIKE SOME PEOPLE GO FOR PLASTIC SURGERY BUT KEEP SAYING THEY DIDN’T AND WORSE STILL GIVE FUNNY REASONS FOR THEIR AUGMENTED BREAST ETC…SO HORRIBLE!@#$!%&(*&%^$
Tks, Elvin for this timely reminder.
We need to be true to ourselves.
Be it a unnecessary lie or white lie. Even to protect another person by using a white lie, sooner or later the truth will still be out. the hurt will be double and impact will be bigger to the person. Why not just be honest and frank in the beginning rite?
Now your this blog is so funny. Inside the bubbles, of course is air. So do you think air is nothing or it is something. Air has weight too, it occupies space define by what the articles that is holding it. So it is not something deceptive or imaginative, it is something that is concrete and has weight.
Hah, this is the secret of it all. Who is represented by air is a lot of spiritual insight and understanding, and only the person who speaks it out could configure it.
Our levels are diffferent, so you may not understand many things that I wrote to you. I will let you think about it.
Sometimes we lies for other’s good. Sometimes we lies for our own good. But lies don’t last long as the truth will be reveal one day. When we lies for own good, we will have to tell more and more to cover up our previous lies. No one is born to be a great liar, and when lies are out of control and backfired, one will have to pay a price for it.
Is true tt sometime lies are needed..n they r named as white lies..LoL..but honesty r still e most important in oneself..cuz lies r difficult 2 sae it out..n we cant probably lies all tyms.. =D
btw here i wan congrets u in e BActor nominees! 恭喜你！
i like to think of these as well!
Well, this gives a reminder of being true to myself in whatever I do.Thanks Elvin. And as mention, some lies are just mend to be however as much as possible we try not to lie. Being haunt by own lies feels damm terrible despite whether the bubble burst or not. I believe that as long as we are true to ourselves, what other thinks are not important because what they see might just be on the perception sight. Truth will comes to light one day.
there is an old saying that “as long as the conscience is clear and not hurting anyone else, it doesnt matter whatever the lies are” but it do feel sad at that point of time. as times passes, it become not that important anymore if the truth will comes to light one day as the feeling has become fade…
Really dislike those people who tell lies and deliberately create an impression of someone you are not.
Elvin,just ignore those people,they are not worth it.
What comes around eventually will comes around
Most important stay true to yourself and those who truly care for you
I definitely is not someone who is like that!
I think it depends. Some people has this inferiority complex and they act as they have lotsa confidence on the exterior but interior they are actually inferior. Some people just want to appear strong to show that they are not a pushover but actually they are fragile. Some people put on a fake front is to not let others worry. In some situations, create an impression of someone they are not is a form of protection against evil, not to hurt the pride and not to let others worry, its not to hurt anyone or being a faker. So I think it depends. But I agree unnecessary lies are no no. Have u lied unnecessarily or create impression of someone u are not before?? If you did, did it came back to haunt u?
When you have less accountabilities in life and if you are living right, secure and operates within your limits, you have less problems and so lies are not necessary.
If you lie to save someone, the one that is backfire is yourself. So count your cost before telling a lie.
If you lie to save a nation, that you could be counted as great, then it is worth the cost of lying.
In life, most things you see and hear may not be 100% truthful, so learn to be selective in what you see and hear is the best way to be happy.
Sometimes it is good to act blur, then you will be not so sorrowful over some unkind and unjustified criticisms. Be in the presence of good men and women who have faith in you. In this way, they will help you to soar like an eagle in the sky.
Eagles do not fly, they soar when the wind current comes around and as they spread their wings, the wind currents push them up to higher heights effortlessly. Think about who are the wind currents in your life.
Every perfection has a limit, …. just think about it.
Make a mistake once and never repeat it again. If anyone who makes a mistake and repeats it again, then he is a fool and not being wise.
Mistakes are meant to be learnt and help us to do it better the next time round.
Remember your Tarzan’s boxing, did you finally win over your opponent. How did you win him?
yes we shud nt tell unneccessary lies,.. hehe
i heard u haf gotten a another drama alongside felicia and dai yang tian correct? woots..finally cn see u partnering felicia? yay!
more confused than ever - after reading !
I don’t know why . . .
He don’t glance my way
He don’t smile at me
He don’t stare at me
He don’t hug me
He don’t kiss me
He don’t know me
And yet . . .
Why do i love him?
Every time I see him
I wish that he knew
I wish I didn’t have to hide
These feelings I have for him
It seems like he is so distant
I want to tell him how I feel
But it’s impossible, I can’t
He wouldn’t take me for real
What he doesn’t know
Is that I love him in my heart
I knew that he was special
I could tell right from the start
What he doesn’t know
Is that when I close my eyes
All I can see is his image
As he slowly passes by
What he doesn’t know
Is that I remember every word
Every single thing he says
Everything I’ve heard
What he doesn’t know
Is that I dream of him at night
And what I really long for,
Is for him to be in my sight
What he doesn’t know
Is that I long for him to say
Just one single word
Anything, so I can stay
What he doesn’t know
Is that we’re so far apart
I wish that he knew
Because It’s tearing at my heart
What he doesn’t know
Is that I long to see him smile
To be with him just once
To make this all worth while
What he doesn’t know
Is that every day I find
He becomes more desirable
And always very kind
What he doesn’t know
Is all of the pain I feel
Because keeping this from him
Makes it all too real
What he doesn’t know
Is that I want to hold him tight
Keep him close to me
To make everything alright
What he doesn’t know
Is that everything he said
Repeats over, and over
As I replay it in my head
What he doesn’t know
Is what I’ll never say
Everything I thought of
I threw it all away
What he doesn’t know
Is everything I hide
Afraid of what he’ll think
I keep it all inside
But no matter what happens
Or where we end up
He will always be
My one and only secret love
说了不知道会不会人相信，我从没谈过恋爱，至少有些人还可以谈过一次，我连一次都没有，可能是因为个性的关系，我不爱也不太会说话，我喜欢一个人独处， 独来独往， 小的时候老师说我有自闭。。。很多事我都喜欢收藏在心底，唯有靠写才能较轻易的把自己表达出来，觉得自己好奇怪，我更本没那个勇气以 “piggy” 的身份出现在你面前，却又很想认识你，做你的朋友–网上朋友，就因为知道，也常常听姐姐对我说，有些事或东西是要靠自己争取的，自己要先踏出那一步，否则东西是不会从天上掉下来的。。。
Life without love is not worth living，
It is love that keeps us strong through the good and bad.
In any case it is not good to lie.white lies are maybe ok.U can lie to others but never lie to yourself always be true to yourself and u will feel good.Honesty is the Best Policy.Anyway congrats on e best actor nominee my 4 elder brothers will vote for u.
the nature of lying is pretty much truth aversion, unless your writing about hypocrisy which carries almost the same nature. i believe one who performs as such due to not being true to one’s self for an intention, i believe your pretty right when after being ‘exposed’ will be empty as they have forsaken what had truly been themselves.
just a comment, not for trolling nor flaming.
wooah!
short blog but ME LIKEY!!
by far, this is one of my favorites, elvin *bravo!*
dont get too hurt if u find out someone lied…. cos people always lie, and they will continue to lie *sinful by nature*
shield yourself, elvin, dont show yourself 100% too soon, some people take advantage of one’s vulnerability =(
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ take great care! Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
How about white lie? It won’t really hurt someone in most circumstances…
True or false?
Yes. Bubbles will burst. Everything will be blurted out one day… or not?