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	<title>Comments on: Lies &amp; Creation</title>
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	<description>The Hour Before Dawn is Always the Darkest</description>
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		<title>By: lazarus</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-9985</link>
		<dc:creator>lazarus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 07:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Projecting an image that is at odds with your actual personality. I&#039;m sure I do it most of the time, pretty much.

It isn&#039;t deliberate, but I think people read me wrongly all the time. 

I&#039;m quiet, but not actually shy. I appear to be easy going, but actually have a capricious temper. I&#039;ve got a good capacity for accepting people unconditionally, but I&#039;m actually self-centered.

I hate disappointing the people by not turning out to be what they expected. I try to buffer by keeping a distance, but that creates more mystery and people fill in the blanks with their own imagination.

I wish I can walk around with a placard stating all my terms and conditions, so that I can remain on friendly terms with people, without getting my personal space encroached on and without offending anyone&#039;s expectations.

Who wants to create an impression of being something you&#039;re not? Where is the demarcation line between wanting to be something and actually being it? How can we bridge the gap between self-perception and other&#039;s perception? We can&#039;t. It&#039;s all a matter of perception and isn&#039;t something we have control over.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Projecting an image that is at odds with your actual personality. I&#8217;m sure I do it most of the time, pretty much.</p>
<p>It isn&#8217;t deliberate, but I think people read me wrongly all the time. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m quiet, but not actually shy. I appear to be easy going, but actually have a capricious temper. I&#8217;ve got a good capacity for accepting people unconditionally, but I&#8217;m actually self-centered.</p>
<p>I hate disappointing the people by not turning out to be what they expected. I try to buffer by keeping a distance, but that creates more mystery and people fill in the blanks with their own imagination.</p>
<p>I wish I can walk around with a placard stating all my terms and conditions, so that I can remain on friendly terms with people, without getting my personal space encroached on and without offending anyone&#8217;s expectations.</p>
<p>Who wants to create an impression of being something you&#8217;re not? Where is the demarcation line between wanting to be something and actually being it? How can we bridge the gap between self-perception and other&#8217;s perception? We can&#8217;t. It&#8217;s all a matter of perception and isn&#8217;t something we have control over.</p>
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		<title>By: rakuten98le</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8472</link>
		<dc:creator>rakuten98le</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 08:10:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about white lie? It won&#039;t really hurt someone in most circumstances...
True or false?


Yes. Bubbles will burst. Everything will be blurted out one day... or not?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about white lie? It won&#8217;t really hurt someone in most circumstances&#8230;<br />
True or false?</p>
<p>Yes. Bubbles will burst. Everything will be blurted out one day&#8230; or not?</p>
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		<title>By: sammie</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8440</link>
		<dc:creator>sammie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 07:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wooah!


short blog but ME LIKEY!!

by far, this is one of my favorites, elvin *bravo!*

dont get too hurt if u find out someone lied.... cos people always lie, and they will continue to lie *sinful by nature*

shield yourself, elvin, dont show yourself 100% too soon, some people take advantage of one&#039;s vulnerability =(

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ take great care! Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wooah!</p>
<p>short blog but ME LIKEY!!</p>
<p>by far, this is one of my favorites, elvin *bravo!*</p>
<p>dont get too hurt if u find out someone lied&#8230;. cos people always lie, and they will continue to lie *sinful by nature*</p>
<p>shield yourself, elvin, dont show yourself 100% too soon, some people take advantage of one&#8217;s vulnerability =(</p>
<p>Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ take great care! Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ</p>
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		<title>By: someone curious</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8421</link>
		<dc:creator>someone curious</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 17:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the nature of lying is pretty much truth aversion, unless your writing about hypocrisy which carries almost the same nature. i believe one who performs as such due to not being true to one&#039;s self for an intention, i believe your pretty right when after being &#039;exposed&#039; will be empty as they have forsaken what had truly been themselves.

just a comment, not for trolling nor flaming.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the nature of lying is pretty much truth aversion, unless your writing about hypocrisy which carries almost the same nature. i believe one who performs as such due to not being true to one&#8217;s self for an intention, i believe your pretty right when after being &#8216;exposed&#8217; will be empty as they have forsaken what had truly been themselves.</p>
<p>just a comment, not for trolling nor flaming.</p>
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		<title>By: Trisha</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8383</link>
		<dc:creator>Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In any case it is not good to lie.white lies are maybe ok.U can lie to others but never lie to yourself always be true to yourself and u will feel good.Honesty is the Best Policy.Anyway congrats on e best actor nominee my 4 elder brothers will vote for u.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In any case it is not good to lie.white lies are maybe ok.U can lie to others but never lie to yourself always be true to yourself and u will feel good.Honesty is the Best Policy.Anyway congrats on e best actor nominee my 4 elder brothers will vote for u.</p>
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		<title>By: Pinky</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8375</link>
		<dc:creator>Pinky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life without love is not worth living，
It is love that keeps us strong through the good and bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life without love is not worth living，<br />
It is love that keeps us strong through the good and bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Piggy</title>
		<link>http://www.elvinng.net/blog/2010/02/06/lies-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-8374</link>
		<dc:creator>Piggy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>说了不知道会不会人相信，我从没谈过恋爱，至少有些人还可以谈过一次，我连一次都没有，可能是因为个性的关系，我不爱也不太会说话，我喜欢一个人独处， 独来独往， 小的时候老师说我有自闭。。。很多事我都喜欢收藏在心底，唯有靠写才能较轻易的把自己表达出来，觉得自己好奇怪，我更本没那个勇气以 “piggy&quot; 的身份出现在你面前，却又很想认识你，做你的朋友--网上朋友，就因为知道，也常常听姐姐对我说，有些事或东西是要靠自己争取的，自己要先踏出那一步，否则东西是不会从天上掉下来的。。。</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>说了不知道会不会人相信，我从没谈过恋爱，至少有些人还可以谈过一次，我连一次都没有，可能是因为个性的关系，我不爱也不太会说话，我喜欢一个人独处， 独来独往， 小的时候老师说我有自闭。。。很多事我都喜欢收藏在心底，唯有靠写才能较轻易的把自己表达出来，觉得自己好奇怪，我更本没那个勇气以 “piggy&#8221; 的身份出现在你面前，却又很想认识你，做你的朋友&#8211;网上朋友，就因为知道，也常常听姐姐对我说，有些事或东西是要靠自己争取的，自己要先踏出那一步，否则东西是不会从天上掉下来的。。。</p>
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