今天我遇到坏人了
July 18, 2010今天我遇到坏人了。
我还记得 红星大奖那晚我说：“乌龟赛跑没有兔子， 只有乌龟。”他说我：“目中无人”，就不让我说话了。我的意思是自己是对手，做好本分，不把别人视为对手。
今天，我说我的新角色是个“自闭儿，怪胎，但有点小天才”。他说他觉得我很像我的角色。我想回答说， 选我演这个角色，我当然还蛮像这个人物的， 我也觉得他很像他演的坏人角色。我没说。
有几个问题我回答：“还好。”他说他最讨厌听到的就是“还好”。我想回答说: “我最喜欢说的就是‘还好’。”我没说。
他叫别人问他我帅不帅，然后故意说“还好”。我想叫别人问我他帅不帅，我会回答“帅”。我没这么做。
他骂我，说我不尊重他，随便和我的队友商量。我说我没有商量答案。 而且我和队友其实是可以沟通商量的，只要不是答案。
这只是一些例子。
我觉得做个前辈要有个前辈的样。
有才能不代表可以为所欲为。有才能， 似有文化修养， 没人格， 可悲。
要别人尊重你，首先要尊重别人。不尊重别人，其实也就是不尊重自己。
我会继续大哥前大哥后地叫他， 但也就是那样。
今天我又遇到这个坏人了。
好人与坏人只是一线之差.
人的本性都是好的. 只是往往都有例外…
前辈又怎么这样呢？如果他连基本的礼貌也没有，我想即使有多资深也不会让人尊敬.
换个角度来看，也许你有价值所以他才对你这么苛刻。
无理取闹的人最好的方法就是别理他！管他去的。他讲他的，你做好本分就好. 他走他的阳关道,你走你的独木桥。
He must be feeling very empty, that’s why he IS unbalance!
“一切从空虚开始”~ 听过吗·？
加油 加油 再加油！=)
isit a realife thingy? is he mainly a host or sth..? even if u dont name it out,we can all guess who he is…i guess,but no matter what…im sure you’ll have all of our support elvin!
oh ya, 早点睡！晚安！
我们挺你到底！！！ =)
tat bad guy is bad ! dun like him!
这种情形是难免的，我想也有人也会遇到..
忍耐! 所谓＂让一步，海阔天空＂
加油！
会不会是误会呢?到底哪里出了问题?
记得红星大奖时,他说:”人生不如意是常态,……”,这时我的眼泪一下子掉了下来,–我曾经那么期待亲爱的欧萱与俊雄获奖!这情绪是两年的积累.
不过第二年,我看到了愈挫愈勇的欧萱,这就是我们的女主角吧!
我们中国人有句话:”韬光养晦” “谨言慎行”.
面对不同的声音,反倒让我多加思考,(—也许你们的本意与初衷都是好的,单纯的).接下来,就是我要怎样赢得对方的赞赏与尊敬.我们的态度很重要,对方的反应也是反应出我们对他的态度.我们期待对方说出的是真心话,不是吗?尽管有批评,有赞美.
有了严格的同事,我就不会陶醉在一片赞美声中!每一双挑剔的眼光都带着他的人生历练与要求,那就看过来吧.
我们爱你们”性情中人”.
我的男主角,不要带有情绪.
抛开无谓的纷争,客观中立.
观众看到你的是你最终承现的作品,期待你的下一部作品.
我很 enjoy “No Limit”.
现实生活中的坏人存在，不愧是让我们更珍惜好人好事，让我们坚强成长。=)
Don’t call someone who envy you a bad guy. You have something in you that made him felt threatened.
A bad guy is someone who totally ignored you and does not see your existence in your present.
“他人气我，我不气。
我若生气中他计。
气出病来伤身体。
想想还是别生气。”
这个坏人一定是非常妒忌你。
像他这样的人， 根本不值得尊重。
算了Elvin， 告诉自己 “大人不计小人过”。
不要让这种人影响你的情绪， 更不要把他的话放在心里。
下次如果他再骂你，你就当做是疯狗在吠吧！=)
be strong ok =) we can see your improvement. jia you ah
他是前辈, 应该树立个好榜样嘛! 怎么可以做那么多小动作!
所谓 “忍一时，风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”, 只好忍着吧.. 我相信他怎么对你, 一定会有人用一样的方法对待回他的..
不要让不重要的人影响你的心情! 你还有你的家人! 你还有我们!
笑口常开,好彩自然来! ;)
你一定要开开心心的哦!
Smile always！:D Hehehe.
With lots of love,
Yuting.
(P.S CHEER UP!) ♥
ELVIN! WATCH THIS! I recorded it myself..
http://www.youtube.com/user/Yutingloves#p/a/u/0/2ewCBx4eXX8
I hope this cheers you up. :) hehe. :D
With lots of love,
Yuting.
hi, don’t take into heart what others say, because he’s most probably just jealous of your achievements, there are many fans of yours out there who still idolise you a lot :D jiayou!
有才能，似有文化修养，没人格，可悲。
说得好，这样的小人不必多理会，
不能阻止别人这么说
珍惜所爱的人最重要。
加油!
人为自己而活，不是为别人而活，所以别太在意别人的看法，想法。。。
我认为你是一个懂得尊敬长辈的人, 有华人道德观念. 也善良. 我想你应该知道这个”前辈”是否故意重伤你.有时候看不顺眼,妒嫉,或觉得是开玩笑,小生好欺负(尤其是那些比较善良的人),讲话就太不自量. 从你的角度看来, 他很可能是故意的.
我自己也体会到你的感受. 我遇到的人, 有太多是这样的.开始,我也尝试容忍,给他面子,可是不会看起来不在意的样子.每个人都有不同的忍度.他如果一直欺负我,我也只好保护自己. 我还是要抬起头来做人.
我是受够了.有些人以为年纪轻就不用理会他人的感受和想法, 我会疏远他.
如果没办法,不会翻脸,会问他为什么这样讲/做? 就用我的理智问到他没话讲. 即使他没有智慧的顶下去,我会笑一下,说”你一之无理的批评我,我不管你讲什么. 我的做法不管你的事.”
这只是我的看法而已.
我希望新加坡有更多保护员工的法律.不是第一次听说,身边的亲人也时常遇到. (找个好律师! 哈哈)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Workplace_bullying
相信神会保护无辜的人.
人是很复杂的动物, 好坏模糊一点, 要小心! 我知道你不是怕他, 可是以防万一…他如果看到你写的文章,很可能会很不开心,小心人家报酬…好好保重..
我喜欢看”No limits”,有钢琴和古典音乐..和游泳都喜欢! =) 你的演技进步了.. “No Limits” 好象是我的生日礼物. hehe..月底是我的生日.
Watching Nodame Cantabile Final part 2 movie tml!! yay…~好多我喜欢的东西.=)
who is he?
so mean!!!
think and think also dunno who, hint me k?
Cheer up, dont let small people deepen ur moods
Cheers,
Ivy Tan
觉得他的行为不像是一个做前辈应该有的,可能他比较偏袒常被媒体跟你比较的那个，所以才那样对你？
不要太在意, 不要放在心上, 不要不开心, 好吗? =)
那人是郭亮吧？ 呵呵。真看不出他是这种人，你也蛮大胆的，敢写出来。我欣赏你有话直说：）祝你拍破天网一切顺利。
掌声鼓励！
let go…
Dun bother with ‘bad guy’ lar …they will get their ‘retribution’ some day one…haha
I guess different people conceive differently, it’s the way he/she perceives the meanings of certain words. I suppose the tone makes a difference too! Don’t take it to heart by what others say. If you can, avoid listening. If not, at least u know what kind of person he is.
其实人与人之间的相处就是这样的，也讲缘份。如果没缘，无论我做得再好，他也不会认同和欣赏。走在街上，两个无缘的人碰面，即使不认识对方也觉得看得不顺眼。这就是无缘！可是往往人的妒忌心重，即使有缘也可能变成无份。两个好朋友又怎么样！如果一方妒忌心重，朋友也会变敌人。我也招人妒忌，更何况是你！
今天我遇到坏人了。
我觉得世界上是一定会有坏人的。
只要小心与避开他们就好了。
莫非他神出鬼没，那就没办法了。
那么就只好像你这样应付他们咯 – 忍。
俗语说：“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空！”
对咯，前辈这么可以这样对晚辈呢？
太离谱了啦，这位前辈好像很幼子哦。
别离他，做好自己本分就好啦。
Elves are here to support you. 加油！=D
要别人尊重你，首先要尊重别人。
不尊重别人，其实也就是不尊重自己。
说的好！
所以我们就做哪个会尊重别人的自己，
然后别人才会尊重我们。
those are words from a narrow-hearted man so dun take them to heart!
这样的坏人我也遇过..
坏人人说的话，别放在心里就好..
虽然你没有表达出来，你的想法是对的….
看开点…人家没人格，我们不跟他计较..
加油吧!!你的戏我都很喜欢看…
期待你的新戏!!
having experienced such stuff by myself, i share the same thoughts as you. if you cannot show me the basic respect, why should i respect you? no doubt you are older but hey, i am a human too. dont i deserve a little respect from you?
ignore such people and do your part in your acting career and a role model for the young ones to follow well(:
Don’t be bothered by him,he’s jealous of you..Take care…..
only you yourself know what kind of person you are, so don’t take his comments to heart. he’s just jealous of your accomplishments, being in this line of industry shorter than him, yet achieving so much more.
everyone with eyes and a conscience will recognise your improvement and modesty and will admire you for it. you should know that there are many people who like you for who you are! instead of someone being pretentious and say what the public would like to hear, you’re very frank and honest. and im sure many people like it that way.
cheer up!
guard your heart, guard it from all the negative feelings and strive on.
Everywhere sure got such pple one, include my office.
“Wat doesn’t kill u makes u stronger.”
Jia you, Elvin! :)
加油!
虽然这件事可能带给你困扰，
但是我也很高兴看到你在博客上很努力的用华文写了这篇文章。加油!
不清楚你说的是谁，也不想指名道姓猜测那个人的来头。
我相信你是清者自清！
加油！
if you have nothing to lose, you have nothing to fear
不知道你的心情有没有好一些？
担心你会给自己太大的压力，但知道这次的角色和’泰山’一样能让你找回快乐，为你感到开心和安慰。
hahaha. he’s really a bad man. but it’s also very funny.
Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.
—Benjamin Spock
Don’t let what he say put you down. Jia you!
i was surprised to find him really rude during the interview too. guess tt’s why he’s not popular though he’s got talent.
p.s. though everyone says you’re improving, u’ve got to push urself further! good luck.
thats why im out of this nation. i can’t stand a single bit of those how lian people and happen that here got alot.
when they know your not as good they step on you.
when they know your good they pour cold water on you.
these people to me are people who themself don’t see themself can go any further to be better for real and all they do is stay scared and all they can do is make sure no one can see that inside them. so they can only act like the grow bigger by using their mouth only.
however, what you do is right. these people don’t worth a min of your life. and don’t have to let them the chance to do the only thing that they can do which is to give trouble. just do nothing tp them and stay away.
these people are siao ren.
記得你的目標與方向，現在所經過的點點滴滴都是過程，都是這路上的一花一草一砂石。路上如果被玫瑰的刺刺到，只要拔出來再繼續行走就可以了，慢慢的走總有一天會到終點。今天早上我起床時，我很感恩，因為我還有力氣、還有時間、還有機會繼續往前走，也許過程比人艱辛，那有什麼關係呢，真正讓人害怕的不是路上的一花一草一砂石，而是當我告訴自己「我不走了」的那一刻。所以我很感恩，也很感謝自己，到今天我還願意堅持。你也是一樣，要感謝自己，到現在你還願意保留你的夢想，還願意有一點點的想要。
Sometimes these people get too high up there, or too long in the line, they are unable to see or accept new ideas and perspectives.
Don’t stoop to his level, Elvin. You are definitely better than that.
俊雄：
今天记者提起，我才知道原来我们之间有着这样的误会。多年来虽说一直是演艺圈人，可个人习惯向来不太关心“圈里”之事，所以怡凤常说什么事情郭亮知道了，那怕是全世界已经知道了。以至于事到了自己头上依然后知后觉。抱歉，我应该早回复的。前辈不敢当，虚长几岁，托大叫你一声小兄弟。
对于你的看法，我说几句我的想法：
一，关于红星大奖。当天下午为了让你提前有个准备，我请撰稿预先告诉你我的问题，“假如你是乌龟，那兔子是谁？”不想当晚你的答案是“没有兔子”，当时的确让我摸不着头脑，龟兔赛跑没兔子？在几分钟的时间里，身为主持必须把握节目效果、时间、嘉宾的访问均衡等等问题，于是我抛了一句“斌辉，他没把你放眼里啊。”接着就是斌辉回答。其实你完全可以补充，如：作为同事，我尊重每一位艺人，作为对手，我倒是希望他们都是兔子，这样我有机会啦！当然，你可以说这是时候诸葛，可是毕竟你预先已经知道问题，而且，谁说这不是艺人需要培养的能力之一呢？
二，关于角色。现在大家慢慢都会知道《破天网》里你演的是多可爱的一个人，阳光、天真、单纯（故事人荣狄说）高人的智慧，我说你适合，你不会只想着自闭吧？你没说的其实大可说出来，我想我会答：你看出来啦！或者，其实我本人比戏里的邪恶多了，等等，反正本来就是玩笑嘛！调侃和自嘲在节目里少不了啊。
三，关于“还好”。假如你是主持，你喜欢嘉宾什么都是还好两个字吗？说“讨厌”纯粹节目夸张用词，真正的讨厌是，1，甩麦停止录影，2，要求你离开现场，这些我从来没想过也没权利做。所以，不要放心上，当然我还是不接受“还好”这样的答案。
四，关于“帅不帅”。这是上一问题的延续，为了效果，重复产生喜剧效果，这是规律。还有作为一个有想法有抱负的艺人，你不会只在意”帅不帅“吧？我说的话算数吗？你那句没说的还是应该说出来，我还会回答”还好“，那多好玩啊。
五，关于”骂”。你事先知道和队友商量事“支援”之一，也就是说不使用“支援”，是不可以对话的。现场导播、场务无数次的要求我提醒你不要交流，对面几十个同学看着你这样不受规矩，我提醒再三，不得要领，于是只有故意托大，要你“尊重主持人”，这样的玩笑被你看成“骂”？“沟通商量，只要不是答案”这话怎么理解？
兄弟，作为艺人，我觉得只要上台，只要面对观众，我们就有义务取悦大家，这是我们的天职，如此才有资格享受鲜花和掌声。在工作时，掺杂太多个人的喜好是要不得的。做艺人需要付出的太多了，有时甚至要克服个性的太内敛，太自我等等等等，没办法，只是你我的使命。
另外，在中文习惯里，可以说“不喜欢某人”或“讨厌某人”，指谁是“坏人”就是比较严重的指控了，“杀人越货”“无恶不作”之人，才称为“坏人”。张口闭口就提到“人格”更是对别人的侮辱，望多留意！特提出供商榷。
以上是我个人的些许看法，诚心希望和你交流。顺祝工作愉快！
郭 亮
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Hey chill:) just smile and let it go!
ya I think it is obvious who the bad guy is. I watched stars award and saw ur interview. at tat point of time I was feeling ridiculous too tat he did not let u clarify your words. however, I tot it was due to time constraint. anyway I dun feel that he is any big shot la. haha! I can see your improvement in the current channel8 show! jia you elvin!
Seriously , the person you’re refering too is really overboard . From the start , i already had impression of the person you’re refering too .
guoliang shooted a blog entry back.
http://guoliang94.spaces.live.com/blog/
however, i smelled vinegar on his blog entry! HAHAHA. guess what? he even disabled the comment function for ppl who stumbled upon his blog “Comments aren’t enabled for this item.”
hmmm as a SENIOR, the way of shooting directly back to the victim seems CHILDISH? poor Elvin gonna endure him for the next few months acting with him?
There’s a few seniors in my workplace who has this same bad habit. Only diff is they are not celebrities. These habits are irksome and irritating. The less we come into contact with them, the better.
The consolation part is we are different from them, that’s why we find them gross. hehee
Btw, I always like your performance and dun frown on this for long. Not worth it if it affects your good looks. :D
I think if the 坏人you referred to were Guo Liang, then I think you must have misunderstood him. From what I see Elvin you are actually petty and narrow-minded too, you think you are now starting to be popular and the company is promoting you, so you think you can just shoot your mouth at a 前辈? Or perhaps to make some headlines so as to create some news and gather sympathy for yourself? Naive action for your age!
I read Elvin’s claim and I read Guo Liang’s reply. I feel that it is because of different in culture in two different nationalities. I have friends from china and I have experience with their culture and behaviour. I have nothing against any nationalities. Sometime they may say something direct and sound sarcastics which may offend people and they do not know themselves. But you just dont take it to your heart. I have bosses from UK. My UK bosses likes to make fun of others and make sarcastics remarks. But this is their culture. They think that making of fun of others is a humour. However, I just ignore them totally and just be professional in my works. Likewise Elvin, just do your work professionally and ignore what other says.
Jia you!
I like that you’re being honest to yourself =P
Saw the headlines today. Yet I appreciate the fact that you are being true to yourself. I hope that you continue to stand by your beliefs and keep the faith despite all odds. I sense that things will be even harder when you face the music tomorrow but keep in mind that God is with you. He sees, He hears, He knows and therefore He will heal your wounds. Keep the faith going and don’t give up! God bless :)
到处都有小人。我相信是有人故意把事情给闹大，又偏偏选择在今天。所谓清者自清，我相信你一定能处理好这件事。日子总是要过，时间能证明一切。加油加油再加油！
@alvin : in the first place, i don’t think you should even point or name out who’s the guy/lady he was referring to. Are you even in the right position to claim what’s happened. Everyone has their good and bad points, not perfect. It’s not your turn to say that Elvin is narrow minded etc…. for you’re not close to him I must say. Even if you’re way older than him, come on, don’t think you can shoot him by saying he’s naive…. unless you’re once in the acting industry and have gone through think and thin. Otherwise, put yourself in other people’s shoes before you make any comment. Any words can just hurt one’s pride/feeling if you weren’t here to support but to discourage one.
你就是通过侮辱前辈来制造话题吧！看过你们冲突的始末，就是在个人理解上有不同而已，而你却动辄以人格为谈资，我认为没人格的是你才对！就是有那么多疯狂的小粉丝把你这种人惯坏了！
一定要人觉得你是多么无辜，多么纯情吗？你知道什么是“恶人先告状”吗？不同的人的理解能力是不同的，你觉得自己是青春偶像，是巨星？什么人都要对顺你的意？你不高兴，就骂别人没人格，你的人格在哪里？你的品德在哪里？
People r now teaching u how to talking make other people feel more comfortable,can u just listen to it? everything hai hao?lols..then better u don answer.
Sory for above commant just remind u,a little child.
hai hao.
FYI, I don’t usually watch TV program but my daughter likes you ( she is only 4yo) and that’s when i get to know you.
I do believe it’s mainly misunderstanding between you and ” bad guy. 文化及语言差距。
真正的坏人will not reveal the true self infront of you.
别因为这篇文章成为负面新闻，而让你的对手有机可乘 。好人不易当， 最重要 EQ!
坦白说， ” 还好” 不是个好答案， 因为” 还好” 之后 呢? You need to give an answer that allows you to carry on with the elaboration.
Jiayou!!!
Think thrice before any comments. It reflects on your personality.
作为一个艺人， 一个公众人物，如果你连这点comment都接受不了还是算了吧
Read WanBao ytd.
Be strong. 加油！
“A blog is for ownself to write & read.”
will stand by you…ignore those sarcastics remarks & bias peoples, not worth getting upset, don’t let it affect your performances at work, concentrate on doing your part well =)
i think those people are over reacting..
yes a blog is for ranting our own feelings and unhappiness.. we have the own freedom to post and feel fustrated over things..
1) Elvin didnt point out spell out who it was, why are there people too guilty or too free to acknowledge and lash back? what if it’s a misunderstanding and it wasnt even talking bout u? what if it’s entirely frictional? why must read so much into it?
2) He wasn’t scolding and badmouthing anyone,
he was merely expressing frustration/unhappiness and very normal rants at his OWN BLOG… like what you and I would do in our blogs/ msn or texting.. nothing childish bout it.. I mean, are u a saint who nvr complains/grumbles about other people?
3) knowing Elvin, this could really b a spur of a moment thingy.. not delibrate no ill intention no bad blood… it is just reporters trying to FRY up some news or bad blood i suppose? so let’s not get manipulated by them and hoohaa over it =)
Cheers,
Ivy Tan
He is just another ‘ foreign talent’ who thinks he is so good.He should go back to where he belongs. The accent over these decades irritates me the most. I support our own fellowmen. It’s not like as though whatever you said on that night was referring to him.
Elvin, i know a lot of times & a lot of things, it is always easier said than done, actually to be honest, i do get upset by those sarcastics & bias comments, felt that it is really not very fair to you either…really hope you can try to ignore & not to be bothered by those bias peoples, just continue to do what you think is right…
promise that you will try to stay happy always, ok? =)
I think u too emo le. if u cant accept comments from tat person and then subsequently label him/her as a bad person, then dun u think it’s a bit unfair to that person?
i believe u can still do better than this!
Jiayou!
公开下结论人家是坏人的人，自己的人格也高尚不到哪里。
can you define what is “坏人”and “人格” before you make an adjustment for other people.
从你的blog可以看出，you are not qualify to be a star.
the way you wrote inblog, you are so childish person. even you dont know how to define what is “坏人”and “好人”。
if your chinese is not so good that you cant express words properly, please write into another language which your are more strong with.
hi elvin,
hoping all is going well with you, and u are not over workin…
i hesitated much to pen down my thots, so i’d give some words of solace, and some words of exactly how i feel after. feel free to delete whatever u deemed fit, its okay with me, my feelings will not be hurt =P
:: my words of comfort ::
personally, i am a sensitive person by nature, and i do let small things bother me in huge volumes, so its unimaginable HOW u feel if you were to be humiliated in PUBLIC, withnessed by thousands…. its utterly UNACCEPTABLE.
i am sorry u have to experience the humiliation not once, but twice over, that simply tells me you were stepped upon not once, but twice over… i’d say this is highly inappropriate.
i share your pain, elvin, and i am GLAD u are blogging about this, and make known your feelings about this matter. you are doing the right thing expressing how you feel, after all, this IS your blog, you can say what and how you feel, and your feelings should definitely NOT be trampled on!
take heart, elvin, stay strong and do report this, if you could *to ensure any future unnecessary tension or/and humiliation*
take care of yourself, elvin, eat well, keep your chin up, k? .<
this matter should be brought to human resources or whatever they call it in singapore, to make known of the humiliation u endured…
i feel you, elvin.
if u could, bring this matter up to get it resolved, so that you will not experience any future humiliation, especially in PUBLIC! it is a big sign waving *NO RESPECT* and yes, this is NOT appreciated.
someone show them the exit door already!
take care of you, elvin!
Elvin,i saw wanbao today
Totally agreed with what you say
Just say it out
I will always sided you and support you
Hi Elvin,
Just saw the news about the ‘online hoohaa’. Don’t worry, it’d be over soon, it’s just a small grey cloud that’s passing by.
Justice prevails. God knows.
The Elves and many other people who know you personally is on your side.
Take care. =)
He’s only your colleague not your boss.
Allow him to sprout all the nonsense he wants.
Elvin,
I must say that you seemed to have over reacted to the entire situation. If you indeed have a grievance against Guo Liang, a person with integrity would have approached Guo Liang and clarify the situation with him versus posting your unhappiness on your blog and insinuating the Guo Liang has no integrity. You know full well that your fans will take your side no matter what the real situation is. This is highly unfair to the other party so I was happy to see that Guo Liang had the guts to post his comments on your blog to clarify. This has however put to light your pettiness and lack of consideration for others.
I am neither a fan of yours nor Guo Liang. I am making these comments in the hope that you will learn from the experience and be a real professional. Instead of blaming others for everything that went wrong, think about what your developmental areas are – e.g. the ability to think and speak on the spot – something you clearly need to learn from Guo Liang and others and also to have the courage to confront someone whom your truly believe had slighted you versus trying to garner your fans’ support in attacking your ‘offender’.
Best of luck!
I Support U Elvin !
Wow, looks like this episode is hitting headlines …(for the wrong reasons)
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/entertainment/view/1073370/1/.html
Anyway, dun care lah, this is how the media ‘cook and fire up’ the story ….just do what you feel is ‘rite’ and we move on ….life is but so….we look at the positive side of things OK? SMILE :>
What is the definition of a “bad guy”? By calling someone whom you think pass sarcastic remarks at you as “bad guy” shows your childishness and lack of culture as well. Frankly speaking your acting and diction needs tons of room for improvement. Don’t be so conceited.
Well.. people from different countries have different way of expressing themselves, their way of views. For example, people from Western Sides, they are more open, anything can be humoring, anything can be jokes. People from Chinese, they too have another kind of communicating. Though i have not communicate with any Western people except China people, I’m also got affected by them easily, resulting quitting my part-time job. I have to say the way they talk they don’t think of others, likewise even when they offended people, they also don’t know or maybe don’t even give a damn. But when things blew up, people turn to them, trust me, they are so ” clever ” and effective in twisting how other people feel, another words making themselves maciam the right one. That was 1 thing i knew, therefore i don’t argue with those people, = wasting time. So yeah, that ” huai ren ” say till ownself so innocent, that’s enough already, still want teach people how to think or how to react ? Save that man.. you should think about yourself why people dislike you first before you teach other people. Because firstly, you offended people. Elvin never even say who was the ” huai ren “, you came up and comment, why didn’t you consult him privately ? Anyway, i’m not Elvin’s fan or anything, i cannot stand how he react to Elvin’s ” huai ren “. You have NO RIGHTS to tell Elvin what is ” huai ren “.
Anyway, that’s the way i look at China people, yes some may be good, but never try to argue with them, because they are forever ” innocent “.
My mum bought me a poster with following when i was young. I always recite this to myself when im angry. After the long reciting, all anger more or less gone le ;p
人家气我我不气
我若气时中他计
要是气死没人替
想想还是别生气!
After reading ur blog, somehow i sense ur 无奈. So many tings u wanna say, but u held back. I guess tats bcos of ur respect for him? I agree that if u want ppl to respect u, u shld respect others first. Seems to me tat this senior, not sure if bcos of his seniority in MCS, is throwing his weight around.
I read abt the news article. Singapore is a country with freedom of speech, 不是吗? Even government encourages feedbacks lor. Dont we hv the right to pen our tots? If dun wan ppl to reveal the truth, then dun say those tings in the 1st place! U did not mention name, thats protective enuf loh. BTW, was ‘he’ stalking u/ur blog or which fellow 打小报告?? Heehee, whoa, Elvin, so many ppl find u a threat liao, start stalking u liao ;p
Haiyo, the more i comment, the more 我为你不值eh. Better stop before i start @#^%%^&
Elvin, Elves will always be behind u. Of course, there are other supporters out there who believes that you are sincere and not like what others claim. They dont know you well enough. Anyway, as No_ON mentioned, ‘he’ is only a colleague lor. Some colleagues juz cannot be frenz, some frenz juz cannot b colleagues ;p
Its also possible tat someone might be backstabbing you? This happens to me everywhere i work. Im used to it liao. Let em be lor. We cant control how others tink and/or comment on us, but we definitely can control our reactions & tots.
加油 加油 再加油!
你行的!
慧云 Huiyun
i may not have known elvin, but it is rare to have celebrity speaking of truth of what they are feeling. media need not blown the entire matter up. everyone is just trying earn a living after all. what’s the point of making it hard on everyone?
i like elvin for being truthful to himself, be it on stage or anywhere. if he made it big, as in popular, i feel it is actually okay to allow him to feel proud of himself. i feel we human do need a room to feel sense of accomplishment for what we strive so hard for. think hard again, can everyone feel proud? nah, you certainly need some capability to do so.
next.. i just like the way elvin behave, like an innocent boy using that ‘huai ren’ word to describe, it feels 小孩子气~ and definitely i feel he is just being harmless like a kid~
come on~ media seriously should be mediator instead of blowing it up. =) peace is joy~ heart warming news are far more popular than those curse and swear type that makes reader boils. =) everyone definitely want to feel pleasantly happy.
不想因为你是我的偶像而盲目支持你，冷静地想想，你的“剖白”是不是真的问心无愧？
姓郭的 !! 别在‘吠’了！！
Seriously, if i am this bad person, i wouldn’t even bother to type my thoughts and explanation.
It may be the truth, or it may be the false, but all in all, this guy bother to put an effort to explain, so let us be mature and think fairly.
It might be just an misunderstanding.
一, 所有在博文上发言的人,包括所有粉丝,我们都没有资格评价这件事的对错.这只会煽动对立,更深的伤害到双方.
二, 这前赴后继的跟贴同时伤害双方,伤害较深的会是俊雄.
陷入负面情绪,偏离自己的方向.
三, 我们要问俊雄的目标是什么!
是为了分出胜负? 是争论谁是谁非?
机遇稍纵即逝.怎样把握机遇,发挥最大潜能,要在短时间内—-人生最美好的时光,创造出更多更好的人物形象.
四, 这世界变化快!
我们想象不出这世界明天会是什么样子!
俊雄的”对手”不是年龄比他大的人,而是年龄比他小的人,可以 “取而代之” 我们的人. “新星” 的升起会异常快速! —-在大家纠缠争论的时刻……
无论郭亮与俊雄,每一次的演艺机会都是非常珍贵的, 就像 “泰山” 对” 小杯” 说的那样:” 兄弟,不打这一仗, 我永远就是一个’没种’的男人了.” 我们是否应给双方应有的支持呢?
” 开拍在即 ” ” 大敌当前 “,让他们专心的进入角色,是我们应该可以做到的.
我们要为俊雄铺一条”平坦前行” 的道路.
爱护俊雄,善于克制自我.
远离”绯闻” “争端”,避免阻碍,拖慢他的步伐.
阳天与俊雄是`新传媒`的两块’美玉’.
两人在剧中同时出现是观众的一大享受,他们的互动留给观众鲜明 深刻的印象.两人互相烘托,带出了两人的’赤子之心’.这世界是有一种叫做 “partner”的东西的.
Hi Elvin,
First of all, I just wanted to say that I’m a fan of yours from America. I used to live in Singapore from 1996 to 1999, and recently I started watching Singaporean dramas again. I’ve seen several dramas of yours, including the recent , and I think you’re an awesome actor. :)
I have also been following your blog, and I really like reading your posts because they are really deep and thoughtful yet simple at the same time. I actually read this post a few days ago, and after I read it, I was shocked and I felt bad for you. I looked at the character descriptions in , and I did actually figure out who the 坏人was. I was actually concerned if he was going to see your post because I know that he has a blog as well. Then today, I saw the headlines on Channel News Asia… and he did read your post.
I’m not going to take sides on who is right or wrong, or comment on the content of the post itself, but I wish that you would not have posted this entry at all. Although you certainly have the right to express your opinions on your own blog, but I feel that as a public figure in the entertainment industry, you should not have discussed specific details about your work (in this case, your discontent with another actor) on your blog because everyone can see it and figure out who he is. I’m sure you don’t mean any harm by your post and hopefully this matter will be put to rest soon.
Best wishes,
Christine
Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.
- Will Smith
Good morning!! =)
年轻就是本钱，你都说他是前辈了。他过不久就会过时了啦！你还有很多年可以表现，可以发挥。他可能是妒嫉，妒嫉你年轻，加上一开始就有外表的优势。不像他，没有外表的优势，拼了多年也只有现在而已。别理会他。
I find that this whole saga is just a misunderstanding. Hope Elvin & Guo Liang will work this out since in terms of work, both of you still will meet each other. Do not wish to c Elvin & Guo Liang seeing each other like enemy. Better to have one more friend than an enemy leh! Cheer up Elvin!!:)) If can, can meet up with Guo Liang to clarify matters leh to avoid future 尴尬.
@郭亮：许久年前，我也是新人，您当时对我所说的话也非常不客气。平时，在一般场合见到您，我对您笑，打招呼，您的反应冷淡。您是个前辈，论年龄，论辈分，肯定比我们的高，经验肯定比别人的深。
是，做主持的一定要把节目做好，炒气氛，方法很多，相信以您的文化修养和经验，就只有你所说的这些方法吗？主持人肯定想受访者回答有趣，但是，条件是，受访者愿不愿意或会不会还有，身为主持人的工作也是和对方建立关系和沟通，不是单一地要求别人的配合。
有的时候，人的真面目是不能隐瞒那么久的。不管是小辈或是前辈或是长辈，做人谦虚，学习虚心，走的路更长更远，心也会更舒坦。
@俊雄：做艺人，或任何人，特别是搞艺术的人，会特别敏感，这是特质，有好有坏，看你怎么运用。我佩服你说出来的勇气，新视这个演艺圈的文化和工作方式非常有挑战性，很难只专注于工作范围而已。相信不吐不快，说得直接，会舒服些。
其实每个演员都要不断学习和进步。语言和演技可以通过一些管道训练，或许可以从一个星期两个小时开始。我看过你演的一些戏的片段，你是可以磨练的。你可以给我发给电邮，我将一些资料发给你。
delete this entry and life goes on…best advice…so far i think…
Elvin, you may just be venting your anger ‘innocently’, but you could have ‘innocently’ hurt the other party too. Even if the other party could have hurt you ‘innocently’ or ”non-innocently’, it’s in the private, and you have chosen to bring it out to public. By then you should know, who’s doing greater harm. Though your fans could be more vocal in defending your stand, it does not means that you are doing the right thing.
When you are a public figure, you should be more mature in your voicing out your opinion, claiming to be innocent like a child could not justify the harm done to the other party.
Though as what Guo Liang had explained “在几分钟的时间里，身为主持必须把握节目效果、时间、嘉宾的访问均衡等等问题”, but not at the expense of mis-interpreting elvin’s answer, since GL himself knows that there is a time constraint & being a host, he shouldn’t anyhow put his words into elvin’s mouth,
why he had to said that “目中无人” & “斌辉，他没把你放眼里啊” in response to elvin’s answer?
Now putting & pushing all the blame to elvin saying that the question is already make known to him earlier.
Honestly speaking, don’t think there is anything wrong with Elvin’s reply, “there’s no rabbit” cause he only
wants to compare & compete with himself. The problem is, is there really a need for GL to said that?
Since in GL’s reply, he knows how to “teach” elvin to add-on (which he didn’t gave a chance for elvin
to really do so), why can’t he said something that sounds nicer instead?
If those peoples who think elvin is being petty by penning down his thoughts about GL in his blog,
what about GL’s reply? Instead of clearing the “misunderstanding” that he had claimed,
he sounds really sarcastics in his reply.
There is a limit to “产生喜剧效果”, not to be too overboard & over-do it…
& is it really a “玩笑” in the first place?
he might really being bias against elvin?
who knows?
Old uncle Guo gave ‘old uncle’ reply. Just let him be cos he has not too many years left in the entertainment industry. He is a sunset actor. Elvin, you on the other hand is a sunrise star. Before you know it, you will be at your peak and he will be gone from the industry.
就让一切随风而逝吧，毕竟你们俩都是圈中人，这个圈子又这么小，何必彼此撕破脸皮呢？这只不过是一个人工作生涯中的一段小插曲，一个难以避免的 personality clash 罢了。
祝
工作顺心
I suggest pple who are just taking the chance to pen down personal unhappiness towards Elvin should stop. If you really think that its childish to pen down thoughts in public, then what are you doing now?
The whole intention was to pen down personal thoughts, not a confrontation.
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Apparently, it seems that the readers are the ones who are over reacting towards the blog and not the writer himself. You can choose to read it, forget it, and not to blow it up.
So look who’s over reacting towards this matter now? Its the pple who reacts to the blog.
Dearest Elvin , the road ahead is gonna be tough, plse be strong and calm as always, u noe we elves the pillar will always be here for you. You can do it ! Jia you and best of luck !
forgot to add, we know you Elvin, but other ppl dun, everyone out there is jealous of you and your achievements and raising popularity so tats y finding fault w u, do u noe u r Yahoo SG #1 trending, hehehe! keep up the good work, may the Force be with you!
when one is too popular, they are prone to criticisms, but we will take it in our stride cos we know our Elvin better than anyone.
Lastly want to thank those who have posted support and understanding towards our Elvin, thanks all. ELVINOLOGY
There is nothing to be jealous of Elvin, his acting skill isn’t good, not up to standard, and he always want to behave that he is the innocent party, but this saga just shown his 不足, and talking about integrity, does he have it? Just a minor matter, he is being so sensitive and unable to accept, how is he to survive in the harsh entertainment world? Or perhaps he is just using this saga trying to create some headlines so as to be in the news or to promote NO LIMITS or the new filming drama, but he has done it the wrong way! Simply accusing someone as a bad person and questioning him about his integrity, is Elvin overdoing it? And showing disrespect too! I think Elvin you are not suited for a life of an entertainment celebrity, better back out or you will always have to hide your head like a tortoise!
@alvin, if you dun like our elvin, y dun u juz stop following this post n exit, it will be much appreciated.
There are many things that are not said, not known, behind the scenes, in their minds. What everyone is seeing and hearing is merely that on the surface, albeit with each their own agenda. As much as everyone is criticising either of them for what they have done or are doing, perhaps, we should be circumspect in our critique. Simply because we do not know the challenges or the struggles they face in their industry. Whether the matter should not have been brought up in the first place is questionable? However, drawing attention to the matter could potentially resolve the underlying problem(s) in the industry, highlighting to the management the struggles these celebrities face. A large part of good corporate governance depends on the openness of management to encourage “whistle blowing” and open communication. Has the management demonstrated such openness in addressing the concerns of their staff? It takes courage to address a matter, the courage to draw attention and hopefully address the matter but also potential flak and scrutiny. In the end, they are answerable to themselves and their conscience.
@alvin: i can see u r very interested in our elvin, thanks for the “support”. i admire Elvin for hving the guts to speak out n stand up for himself. The entertainment circle is dark, you are not in it so pls save the unnecesary comments. And No Limits hv ended its run, now its Breakout. Elvin never boasted abt his acting, it is the media that like him so much cos he is an extremely nice guy, thus the overwhelming popularity. Please accept it with grace.
Give him a break won’t you, it seems everyone expects him to be a perfect celebrity. No emotions, no temper, no anger, always swallowing whatever is done to him. Haven’t we all reached a brink before? Reach the point where we need to speak our mind and not continue to be trampled by others who think we will never relent. If we keep hiding our thoughts, concealing everything with nice words and make everything seem so perfect, how real are we to ourselves? Let others continue to take advantage of us cos they think we are weak and will only submit to them just because of whatever status or position they may be in?
aiyo, stop all these “ITS YOUR FAULT” thingy pls. please do not show the young kids the dirty side of showbiz business . even if they know, we must still not show it openly. THIS IS HOW THE WORLD IS TODAY. u just do not wash the dirty clothes in public. So my advice is Elvin and GL take out their respective comments and let their employer, our great Media corp to solve it behind doors. keeping this post alive will only invite more criticism and more arguments. FOR GODSAKE, please someone stop all these. its shameful. it take 2 hands to clap and both parties has their blame to take.
Let’s accept their right to express themselves, they are both seasoned celebrities, talented, respectable in their own rights. Let’s respect ourselves, be gracious and be open to critique. Everyone falls, rises, learn and move on. There’s so much more to do. A sign that singapore is being more accepting of people of all beliefs, personalities, etc.
i don’t like GuoLiang !!
during “Where The Queue Starts 3 排排站，查查看 3″, I remember that he criticized that the carrot cake cooked by the 80+ year old uncle is not nice and lousy.
And he claims that he has eaten so many kind of carrot cake and this is one of the lousiest.
WELL, you’re not a LOCAL, your taste bud might be significantly different from other normal people.
Maybe the carrot cake is not nice to you, but HEY the stall is so well like and popular, and I see so many people eating it.
Your comments on the show only show what kind of unfeeling undeserving PR you are.
And worse off, i remember an uncle ever told me that GL took his cab, asking him to go a location where he wanted to alight and ask his friend to board, so as to save on the boarding fare. CHEAP !
Hi Elvin,
I understand how you feel. Some people just like to make life difficult for people because they are not handsome like you ha ha….so don’t be too upset ok?
Just like what you say, you just play your part.
We will support you for sure, yeah!
I really dislike Guo Liang for been so disrespectful to his juniors. I guess he is jealous of elvin’s popularity.
why don’t we pool some money together and get Uncle Guo Liang a ticket back to china?
mediacorp has plentyful talented younger hosts.
i feel for you and please don’t be affected by what people are asking you to do. listen to your heart but remember, don’t let your heart overrule your head. God bless you.
i believe you know what you are doing, in the end, its not about everyone else, stand by what you believe in, be courageous, do what you need to do. those that need to defend themselves, let them do it, they can speak all they want, and they can do it so eloquently. everyone has their shortcomings, their strengths, to each his own. you have always known what you need to do and done it. that is all that matters.
Thank u everyone who supports Elvin.
Happy to see many many positive comments esp to ling. U rocks! ;)
I have faith in elvin that he will be strong enough to overcome everything.
Elvinology will be with you! Always! :)
Maybe he should ask himself if he is indeed so “professional” as he claims to be, that he does everything a host should do, that includes being insensitive to others just so that he gets the “effect” the show requires. If that’s the way a good host should be, I guess he ought to look at some of the hosts in china and taiwan who are able to communicate effectively with the guests on their show in a way that achieves the desired effect and yet sensitive enough to a fellow human being. Or does he expect everyone to respond the way he “expects” otherwise he will not be able to respond in the way he hopes to… He might was well write scripted dialogues for all his variety shows and programmes and pass them to his guests. A good host should be able to make do out of any situation or any type of celebrity or personality that appears on his show.. Maybe he has been too sheltered in the cosy environment this place currently offers him, thinking he is the best there is in this small pond.. Wonder who is the frog in the well.
俊雄，
你真是孺子不可教矣，看来你的演艺事业将提早结束。想想看你的一番话不单只是得罪了一个人而已，其实你得罪了所有的资深艺人与前辈们。往后在资深艺人与前辈们眼里，你将会是一个目中无人，自以为是的小子，再也不会有任何人愿意给你学习的机会。就算有也是敷衍你而已。
看了你的粉丝所写的留言不仅让我担心，因为为你盲目的打抱不平，这些粉丝无意间学习了利用部落格出言批评长辈。你跟我见过的一位中二学生没两样，利用部落格辱骂师长。我们称这位学生幼稚没家教，那请问阁下该这么称呼你呢？
请问作为一个公众人物，拥有拥护者，在部落格使用煽动性言语，你付得起社会责任吗？
俊雄在粉丝眼里你只是个帅哥，不是演艺人员。你的演技大家心照不宣，所以如要继续在演艺圈里混，劝你还是虚心学习，多做少开口。
郭亮对工作的认真和专业精神是你该多多学习的，他一站出来就会散发明星的气质。而你确实个帅哥摸样，大家家里应该摆放过漂亮的装饰品吧？中看不中用。
俊雄如果看得明白我的流言的话就说声谢谢吧。
陈
他一站出来就会散发明星的气质.
are u serious? hahaha.
能忍着忍有时候别说太多，
多说多错少说少错，
谁对谁错他们自己心里明白……..
现在只能怪你的人际没人家好
I totally agree with you that “Respect has to be earned!” and I can understand you how you feel. I have colleagues who are “throwing their weights” around because they are more senior ( in terms of age and longer period in the organisation). Anyway, it is their choice to behave the way they do. We can choose to respect or not respect them. So take care and all the best to you.
things happen in life, people can say whatever they want, say you’re unteachable, say you have no future. maybe that has been said to them before and they have kept that in mind ever since and never moved on, stuck where they were, in their minds, physically and still remain stuck since then. that’s why they say the same things to other people. maybe no one else seems to be giving them a chance, they don’t realise that in life, you just got to pick yourself up, have a clear conscience, learn, move on. the choices you make determine your future, not the circumstances around you. keep on keeping on towards your dreams, your goals.
Dear Raymond,
I believe i have good eyesight. Elvin’s sincerity, humble, down to earth is something that you have not came across I supposed. I believe Elvin is a mature guy who knows what he is doing. Guo Liang on the other hand, needs to do some self reflection.
Being a celeb, in the limelight shld have “freedom of speech” too! =)
Mr Raymond,
我们未必都是学生，我不是，可能还比你老呢！但是我没资格说你，你又为何有资格说俊雄呢？
你说的：想想看你的一番话不单只是得罪了一个人而已，其实你得罪了所有的资深艺人与前辈们。往后在资深艺人与前辈们眼里，你将会是一个目中无人，自以为是的小子，再也不会有任何人愿意给你学习的机会。就算有也是敷衍你而已。秦
请不要挑拨，或一竹竿打翻全船人。。俊雄并没有对前辈不敬的意识， 这只是针对一个人的看法。。 而有这种想法。。是因为多次被欺压。。 太多太多。。 才会把真想说出来。。他绝对尊敬前辈，这点他也好多次说明过。。
G = Goofy
U = Ugly
O = Old
L = Lousy
I = Impotent
A = Arrogant
N = Narcisist
G = Grouchy
Those are the characteristics of Uncle Guo Liang. Please scram back to china, we don’t like you and don’t welcome you here.
no offence, but if can’t even survive guo liang you better not break into the taiwan or HK market ever – the hosts there, are much much brutal and quick in their comments and judgments.
Just small issues… no need to get worked up over.. GL has always been professional so i guess he’s just trying to bring his points across…
Perhaps u r too sensitive.. Just take it as lessons learned…
Have a nice long weekend ppl!
no offences to anyone. i think everyone should be given the freedom/speech to write down their thoughts, no matter who they are. a celebrity is also a normal human being. there’s no need to react too much about it.
Elvin, just dont bother about those things. and live your life happily ._.
take care and SMILES :D
How can china man guo liang be so arrogant in singapore? We have plenty of talents, we don’t need him.
I agree that we should pool some money and get him a ticket back to china.
I heard tiger airways is having promotion to china.
I am not a fan of either celebrity, but I guess it boils down to Respect, calling names might have been a misstep. Although I don’t agree totally with some posts, but Elvin ought to take a look at all the posts again coz some might have a point coz “harsher” words and personal attacks are being posted, I don’t think thats the kinda influence you want for your fans. Freedom of speech has been over used and distorted by some here coz freedom of speech comes with responsibilities. I meant well, and like one mentioned in the earlier post, its a short episode, everyone got to move on, just learn from experience lah. Good day.
In the newspaper today..
“黄俊雄：对事不对人”
黄俊雄：忍气吞声没人知
《联合早报》问黄俊雄，是否读了郭亮的博客文章，他回答读了，记者问他有何回应，他仍拒绝“点名”批判，只是再次强调：“我没有针对任何人，而是对事情，我觉得每个人对每个人要有基本的尊重，我一向很尊重长辈。不要看笨笨的就吃定我。”
问他是否接受郭亮的解释与回应，黄俊雄说：“我没有资格原谅任何人，别人也有资格说自己想说的话。我说他是坏人，不是说我就是‘好人’。”
有人读了他的博客，指他以小辈指斥前辈的作风嚣张，但他觉得那是他在忍无可忍的情况写下文章，如果他忍气吞声没人知道，一出声就遭批评，那对他并不公平。
他说：“我只想心无杂念地工作。”并表示之后不再回应有关事件
@ Jenny & Raymond
agreed, if possible, would like to contribute some $ too =)
your 笨笨 is not lovely, is unqualify.
怎么这么多老师来教导你怎么做人啊？呵呵！
如果连身边的人对自己好不好或者人格有没有问题都丝毫察觉不到的话，还不如去撞墙。
所以我是相信你的。
再加上看了X亮词锋犀利到差点让人窒息的回应，你放心，聪明的人是相信你的。
误会？X亮你在放屁吗?
朋友，大人有大量。郭亮都回复了，并且人家是长辈。as he said, it’s probably a misunderstanding. you should’ve brought your concerns to the person in question, rather than post it here for reporters to use as news-worthy material.. nevertheless, i wish you all the best in your career.
J
郭亮这等货色的臭阿九我倒也见多了。你善良、青涩，他就以为你钝；他中文表达能力强而你却不善中文表达，更让他在你身上找到了通过揶揄你来建立他无比优越感、满足他不平衡的心态的理由。读他对你发文的逐点反驳，不难发觉他以流利文笔编织道理于前，致你无理于后，洋洋洒洒一堆绚丽文字迷惑众人。华丽的文笔就是真理？这是高尚的谎言！是引开视线好让自己开脱的手段。你们二人排排站，谁真谁假，谁是谁非，一目了然。
三十岁的人了，思想和行为应该成熟了吧？
新加坡的綜藝/節目主持人多數都欲仿效台灣藝人的風諧幽默, 但是往往都冷冷收場, 並且讓人覺得主持人很”假利害”, 自以為是蔡康永還是黃國倫, 這時候, 就讓我們很同情上節目的新加坡藝人 – 冷場就算了, 臉上還要被畫上三條線~
應該是主持人們要多加油~
四五十岁的人了，思想和行为应该成熟了吧？
Rock,你这种嫉贤妒能的人，我也见多了，你自己心理不平衡，也不需要这样教唆俊雄吧？！
lorraine，郭亮是贤是能，你的标准未免太低，怪不得嘴吐不出水准。
I believe that no one, in his right frame of mind, would want to write something that is not true, especially against someone who is a well-known veteran host/actor in the same company in which both are working for & especially he himself is a promising young actor.
Why would he want to jeopardize his career in this manner. What I believe is that he must have been bullied many times secretly by this so-called senior and felt injustice.
Frankly, it is common in any work place to be bullied or taken advantage of because of one’s personality, especially when one is humble, not-so-vocal, easy-going, kind and sincere.
The senior would probably not have thought that his actions to this young actor would be worth a mention in his blog which subsequently was brought to public attention by the media.
The way I see it, it is really a case of a bully by a so-called senior by way of making things difficult for him.
The senior should seriously do some self-reflection of his actions toward his fellow colleague in light of this exposure. It might be a dark side of his character which he himself might not even aware of.
My advice to:
Elvin,
Now that you have let go the baggage, move on and concentrate on your acting. Your acting has definitely improved a lot. Am sure with your look & smiling personality and improved acting, you will win many fans in time to come. However, spare a moment to think of how to handle such bullies in future in a manner that is firm, professional and diplomatic. Am sure there are many of such bullies in your work place.
Talents will not shine overnight. They have to be given time & opportunities to polish their skills. Pornsak, Charlyn & Lee Teng are such examples. They have improved tremendously.
GL,
In the light of this matter, you should seriously do some self-reflection of your actions toward this fellow colleague of yours. It might be a dark side of your character which you might never have been aware of.
It is really sad that having read widely so many fine chinese literary books, it did not make you a better person.
With your wealth of hosting & acting experience, you should impart them and provide guidance to your junior colleagues, especially the weaker ones, in a respectful & humble manner.
Respect, whether from your colleagues, family or friends, has to be earned.
It is not acquired by expecting them to have the same level of efficiency or intellectual as you or by passing sarcastic remarks but by respecting others’ opinions, providing guidance and impart knowledge in a professional yet humble manner.
Being a bully to gain respect from others will never work. It will create resentment instead.
You have been given many opportunities by your company to polish your hosting/acting skills and benefited with a comfortable life in this land, I hope you can pay it forward by helping your fellow junior colleagues to progress.
(If any of GL friends is reading this article, do forward this article to him. It will help him to be a better person)
Elvin处理事件的成熟与风度，和Rock 所说的真理，是要有足够智慧的人才能够体会到的。
Hello,
I offer this:
“I do not know the key to success, but the key to failure is to try to please everyone.”
Engage in playful activities like hobbies or anything u like, for self-expression.
Health, Wealth, Love, Self-expression forms the square of life.
Anyway, THIS, TOO, SHALL PASS.
:D
everything happens for a reason. And i believe he will get his karma. =) jia you!
many doesnt have the courage,
and i admired you for actually posting your thoughts.
the road is long,
日久见人心
SMILE =)
Check out this week’s i-weekly. I like Chan Han wei’s reply. Straight to the point and sharing his views. Anyway, that’s a side track. So back to the topic, I think in this industry, seniors do take sides on the juniors. No offence to “another young actor”, but I do feel that the 坏人 is taking side on the “another young actor”. Not putting out names, but the young actor is in good terms with 坏人, so naturally… as humans we can get biased at times.
Maybe some of you might disagree, but I don’t think we see 坏人 treating the “another young actor” that way, don’t we? Anyway, stay strong elvin! Remain like your true self, and not bootlick like some other young actors.
做好自己就行了，不要被别人的言行举止所影响，elvin加油!
Elvin no matter i always support just ignore guo liang whatever he do or he said just ignore him just treat him he got old people sickness i always support u
From:
Cindy
我不喜欢这个坏人… seniority doesn’t mean anything if you can’t lead by example.
elvin, i hope you are feeling much better about it now. =) don’t let this get you down. every time you feel down, just scroll up and down and read all the positive comments. you are definitely better than the 坏人!
加油! 你要开心 ok? =)
Hi elvin,
don’t be bothered of what others say.As long you feel that you are doing the right thing, what others commented about you are not important at all.
Jiayou=)
i remember the scene during the star awards when he just cut you off without letting u continue to talk.. but he is always that rude.. even to other celebrites.. cos he just wan to get the show going.. and his sense of humour is really quite bad… good that you point it out. he should really learn
i read the blog post like.. way long ago (before all the media/fans/concerned viewers/readers attention) and i thought it was fair enough that you did not mention names.
but i think it’s reading the comments that things got a little out of hand. the media coverage did not help either. or was it the other way around? (i’m in australia so i didn’t know it was such a big issue! *was it?*)
well i think it’s necessary to vent our frustrations once in a while but i guess as a public figure you should be careful where you do that. maybe have like a hand written journal where u can ‘pen’ down your thoughts. *pun intended*
all the best! move on and move forward! (:
可能双方不了解对方所要表达的意思, 而双方又不要当面说清楚, 造成彼此误会加深, 也是沟通上出了问题. 希望你们能化解误会,因为你们俩是我欣赏的艺人, 人生短短几十年, 算了吧, 祝健康快乐.
=)
Elvin, hope he didn’t do any unpleasant things to you again?
hi elvin,
after reading both your entry as well as guo liang’s reply, i genuinely feel that it is a misunderstanding.
and since guo liang did make an effort to clear the misunderstanding, just forget bout the whole saga, and focus on your work :)
all the way from oz here !
I admire Elvin’s courage to speak up to this. I mean, he himself knows that he is a public figure and it won’t be very appropriate to blog about somebody else’s negative sides. So it must have took Elvin alot of courage to publish this post. And he’s probably struggling inside so much that he made such a decision.
Elvin, how’s your filming? wondered did he do any unpleasant things to you again? hope he didn’t =) hope it is not bothering or affecting you too much…wish right now at this moment you are already into the role, happy & enjoyed yourself playing this role =)
CHEER UP!
Hi Elvin, I support you. You are a kind and nice guy.
Guo Liang ( 坏人) – You are really a stupid, BAD GUY.
Hi Elvin,
This is my first time entering your blog due to the curiosity about the little incident of you and that “da ge”. Like you, I like to express my feelings through typing and will feel better after it.
Like what I always tell others,
1. Respect has to be earned. Respect does not come just because of one’s age or title.
2. Why should one let an outsider destroy your day? Afterall he is just someone that knows nothing much about you.
3. Try not to burn bridges.
4. What is the colour to describe your life?
- Wisdom gives you meaning to your colour.
- Happiness brings warmth to the colour.
- Love adds sweetness to the colour.
- Forgiveness and peacefulness allow you choose the most suitable colour
I am not your fan. But I could see that your acting skill has improved. Your efforts have been recognized and appreciated.
Just a cent of thought from humble me :)
Elvin, you are a really nice guy. . . don’t let Guo
Liang or this matter bother you. Cheer up! :) Cheers! Shannon
I will always support you! :)
你好，看了小兵迎大将 ， 他在节目中也不可以讲讽刺的话。
Well, dun dwell too much about it. I am not a big fan of yours but i am gonna take your side. GL’s temperament is always the same. He dun like you, he will say it. He will use all his chinese vocab he ever learn in his life to shoot you one way or another. Just by the trailer playing on TV, fools can tell he is really mean and difficult with you. I won’t play nice with him if i was you.
GL, being the senior by age and experience does not get you the free pass to bully. And your hosting skills is no where near Pornsak. Anyone agree?
hmmm… I heard about this issue when it started in the newspaper. Actually didnt quite take much notice until last week when I saw the preview of this program.
I personally feel that, there must be some “心病“he had towards you. I think if you feel uncomfortable that someone treated you like that out of the blue, and it is so obvious, you better get someone to help you ask him out (that middle man must be around) to solve the problem once and for all.
Although, we dont live to make people happy, but when we know people are unhappy with us, and inside us we do take it, then we must settle it.
I hope what I mean can resolve something. And lastly, hope you all the best in your career.
Tmr have Gatekeepers on Channel 8
I have watched the commercial about it
Guo Liang keep contradicting to wadever Elvin is trying to say leh
I think he is doing this to make Elvin embrassed and for revenge
He is also trying to make things difficult for Elvin
But to Elvin,
Dun let this thing affect your mood
And i really pity you becos you need to work with him on a new show called “Breackout”
And Jiayou to your role in Breakout
Hope it would be nominated for the Best Male Actor Awards in 2011
show him your grins and charming smiles. =]
Spoke: I totally agreed… I even think pornsak had overtake GL….
As what spoke had mentioned earlier, I either ur big fan, but this time round, GL is way too much…
Elvin Ng, I support you.
This is the kind of world we live in everyday. Some people are lucky enough not to encounter these kind of crappy fools while others are less fortunate. I had been through and I think I would still meet a lot of these people for the rest of my lives. Of course, when I meet these kind of people, I have choices to make on how to react to these kind of people. A courageous person would fight back like you do. I do think that what you did is very right. The other choice would be to keep quiet and pretend not to hear what these people are talking about. But through experience, more often than not, these people would become worse and talk even more as if they are really right. Eventually, it would still become unbearable if you have to face this person every day at work or at home. Its right to fight back. But I know many people who are not fortunate enough to fight back because the moment they do, they lose their livelihood. Life is pathetic, really. I really think that there is no justice nor happiness in this world at all.
Personally I don’t take side.
But as a Singaporean, i said ‘hai hao la’, ‘hai ke yi’
almost everyday. This is Singaporean Lingo. If that host by the surname of Guo feels disturbed by this, he shouldn’t be given so much opportunities by Mediacorp.
There is nothing wrong with lingo, as long as it’s not vulgarity. If host dislike our lingo, then why work here in Singapore? He may go back to China if he wants, see where he stands there.
Guo Liang, I think you better as a veteran host, be tactful with your choice of words and do not use your China slang to tekan Singaporean with Singapore Lingo. You may end up offending alot of people.
Guo, Veteran means Senior, in case you are not well versed in English. As a senior, does not mean you stop being humble. Go think about it.
Being an objective person and after reading both sides of the story (Guo Liang’s blog included), I feel that Elvin seem to have blown this out of proportion. Why must he add such a blog entry in? Does he not know that even though this is a “personal” blog, thousands and thousands of his fans would be reading this. Does he not know the consequences it will lead to? He is obviously trying to court controversy by doing this. I believe he should have been more sensible,keep this under wraps and approach the relevant people or higher authorities(Mediacorp management ) if he does not like the way GL is treating him. At least they could have talked over it peacefully.
GL is also not free from fault. If he had that little bit of empathy and put himself in Elvin’s shoes, he would not have kept making things difficult for him. Therefore, he need to reflect back on his actions as well.
In a nutshell,I really thank Elvin for stirring up a bit of controversy in this otherwise boring local entertainment scene.:)
I am wondering,
while a handful of people feels that Elvin shouldn’t raise his concern on his feelings on his blog,
Then why was Guo Liang given an authority to pass sacarstic remark directly on air? Not very professional I feel.
A person comment on blog, you have a choice to read or see. But Sacarsm on air, is already for everyone to see. Guo, are you able to see the diff ? You have directly stepped on the tail of someone in front of everybody.
Guo, instead of typing a long ‘mandarin compo’ that we see as being ‘defensive’, wiser for you to type a ‘letter of apology’ to extend your sincerity and will to stay in mediacorp.
We accept and welcome PRs, and naturally PRs should learn to accept our languages and Cultures.
Hai Ke yi mah?
hope you can tide over this saga in no time. freedom of speech it is! be strong, speak up, fight for yourself.
FIGHTING! ^.^_v
jus wan to add that your acting is improving over the years.
dun worry, alvin, we support u.
dun bother abt all these PRCs…if he so good, ask him balik kampong lor!!
To me Elvin is a very down to earth, good person, feel very comfortable when seeing him on tv, he’s not fake and makes pple feel real .
On the other hand this Guo,From the very 1st time this GL come to sing, den got so many shows to host already yaya papaya lor, talk about qian bei i think he still not fit enough,
The hai hao, hai keyi , shi ma all our language, ask him to speak in english if he’s so clever lor, dun think he can, pls la wanna work in foreign country pls be humble if not go home and plant ur sweet potatoes,.
if ur hometown can fit u in, den u dun have to all the way come here liao, he’s juat a rejected goods.
My two cents worth…
Yes, I do think it would have been nice for guoliang to say he is sorry to Elvin.. not for making those remarks but for upsetting him… I guess he was also not aware that Elvin was so upset about the things he heard.
For me, I feel GL was probably making those remarks because it is part of his job to do so…
It is great tat Elvin finds courage to take a stand:) It is great tat Elvin expresses how he feels and doesnt pretend or hide or be a hypocrite. I give you a thumbs up for this one!:)
I guess though, a more valuable form of communication might be to talk to Guoliang direct and tell him personally how you feel :) He wouldnt say all those nasty things if he knew how you felt about them I am sure.. That, though, might take more courage than ranting on your personal blog…hehe ;) But I think your feedback to GL would be very precious to him too.
Like i always tell my 5 year old son when he complains about what his friends do to him.. if you dun tell other people how you feel, they wouldnt know it and you cannot blame them sometimes for reacting in a certain way.. because they really did not know that they hurt you.. and they really dun want to hurt you…Most people are not BAD PEOPLE who are going all out to hurt everyone around them ;)
GL has never been known for being malicious.. and there seem no reason for him to get started now..
Perhaps if Elvin did not take his remarks personally, this might not have happened as well. When we take things personally, we are making a judgement not only on ourselves but also on the person who made the remark.. in making the other person a bad guy, we become a bad guy too… :( Sometimes we think people dun like us but that may not be true at all ;)
Anyway, Elvin, Jia you!:) I wish you peace and may you find a beautiful ending for this one.. afterall in the showbiz, one more fren is better than one more enemy:)
juz do wat u think is right and live life to the fullest. IGNORE him.!!! :D
Elvin,
Ignore him, he is just plain jealous……
Hi Elvin
I think you have great potential in Media Corp. However, sometimes to be successful , we need to be able to handle the people around us. Especially people from different culture and experiences . If you find that they are too frank or blunt in whatever way you put it, just play along . To you it may be an insult but to them it is just part of show biz.. Take it in your strike and great success comes when you hear an insult and don’t feel the pain. Cheers keep up the good work.
Guo Liang,You better say “SORRY, I AM VERY SORRY ” to Elvin for what you had been done during the TV show….
china man will always be china man.
酷！But you should have guai lan him back… just say “sure, sure, sure”
Hi Elvin,
People are speculating if this is a publicity stunt for the upcoming year-end blockbuster, but I am a blogger myself, and I sometimes write stuff like that too. It sounds sincere, so I believe you really feel that way. Don’t get too discouraged, because there will always be people around who will criticise you and put you down to make themselves feel great. However, be reminded that friends are there for a reason. Not everyone you meet in life is a good person; some people are just out to make life difficult for you. But do not be discouraged! You will still continue to respect him although he hasn’t been treating you the way a person should be treated, and I respect you greatly for that. I takes great humility, so keep it up. I think you’ve improved tremendously through the years, so keep on working hard, and don’t care about the non-constructive criticism people give you. Ultimately, they can say what they want and people won’t necessarily care, but it’s how you react that matters. You did the right thing to not retaliate.
Carmen
i dont think u are being xiao qi arrr.. those who said u are childish are those guilty ones.. so you shouldnt mind those ppl. i admire your courage, because you know you will still see him around and yet you have the courage to stand up to him. not like most of the hypocrites in your industry.
anyway! jia you orh! my mom and me like watching your dramas alot! hehh..
If that Senior want people to respect him…shouldn’t he respect others in the first place as well? Disrespectful of others yet expect people to respect him? Who does he think he is? Elvin just be yourself!
In this Industry…I see lots of people not being their real self which is a total disgust!
Elvin I like the way you are! You have my support! Continue to be your real self & not wear a mask like others in this industry!
hey man, watching the show now. chin up you have my support. but from now on you gotta watch your back. please do take care. =)
mr guo might be in his mid life crisis or something. it might be true.
F’ver your fan :) Dont be bothered . Be yourself :D
After reading through the blogs entries by both party, I feel that it is just a misunderstanding. I feel that Guo Liang protray a rather arrogant or sarcastic persona on tv and Elvin is rather sensitive. It may be difficult for Elvin to accept but there are bound to be differences and we have learn to be open hearted and open minded about it.
I am rather sensitive in a way too. Thus I have had misunderstanding with my bosses , colleagues , future in-laws. It is not that they are bad people, it is just that there are differences in the way we look at things and handle them. And this affects a sensitive person more than others. It also has to do with a lack of experiences (work or life). This can be both good and bad. Good in the way that we are young and fearless (leading to Elvin saying that he is fighting for his right, because he felt offended) . Bad in the way that there is no personal agenda on Guo Liang’s part. It is just the way he is , he is rather frank and this will hurt a sensitive person badly (when the remark isnt pleasant).
Watched today’s 8pm channel 8 show..xiao bin da jiang?cant remember the title.But I can guessed its Guo Liang too!Pretty obvious by now…guess GL was really sarcastic on national TV.Afterall,he shld have understand that despite being an artiste,there are still times when we feel nervous and anxious.I think its completely forgivable.Hai hao is juz like anybody else’s kou tou chan,so why be so negative abt it?
Hi elvin, I just watched the channel 8 show and i think he seem to be picking on you. He’s just got some freaking attitude problem.
Personally, as a singaporean, i owaes use the word 还好 and my sis agrees with me. cnnt blame him la since he’s from China and cnnt understand how singapore students talk. just ignore him k! jiayou! you have my support! :D
I think it’s ok to write anything you want on your blog. Elvin has improved alot and is a good actor. Keep up the good work.
As for the incident with Guo Liang, perhaps, it’s the cultural difference… I also noticed that Guo Liang likes to tease / laugh at the way Ch 8 artistes speak Mandarin… I think it’s disrespectful. Wonder if Guo Liang can speak English..ha…ha..
hi elvin, this is the first time i’m reading your blog. never been a fan but must say this is an awesome blog post. you’re one courageous guy! :)
清者自清，对我而言，你只是真实地分享自己的感受，没什么不对的。Follow the voice of your heart.
Who knows what the future lies, maybe people do reflect and change. In life, nothing is predictable…Just be true to yourself and u r already doing so :)
Hi Elvin,
You did great yesterday…. jia you and dont give up!
看了昨晚的节目，觉得MrGL在节目的前30分钟表现＂还好＂。但他对＂还好＂有這么大的反应，is really strange, 就＂不还好＂。
MrGL善于用哲学式的话，有没有想过：＂对不喜欢的事，应该尝试接受＂？
u like it or not，我倒觉得＂还好＂还是＂还好＂。
直到上的礼拜看到《小兵迎大将》的宣传短片，才知道原来发生了这样的一件事。
好奇的我，上网查了Elvin的Blog，看了你的comment 和郭亮的回复。想说说对这件事的意见。
没有人在这世界上是完美无瑕的。可能郭亮你的语言能力和表达方式是比较强，但并不是每个人都像你一样。如果每个人如此的话，那我想你可能还容易就被取代了。或许，作为一个主持人你必须要把气氛高热，但你的言语和脸部表情却是不成对比的，也难怪他人会误会。你看看那些外国的主持人，虽然他们嘴巴说的是人家的不是，但他们脸上的表情却没有让人有任何的误解。郭亮你可能真的必须想想是否应该在节目开始前好好跟要合作的艺人做好沟通，才不会产生不必要的误会。这样同样的事就不会发生了。
至于，elvin可以感觉的到你在这次节目上所受的委屈，而你把你的感觉用文字表达出来，我想需要很大的勇气吧！毕竟，这演艺圈很小，你怎么一说很快就会让人知道你所影射的是谁了。可能也会因此和郭亮产生更大的隔膜。不过希望经过郭亮对以上你的comment 所做出的回应后，你们可以把这误会解开。毕竟，你们还在同一间公司上班，怀有这样的疙瘩会让心情受影响的。
希望你们可以放下这一切的不快，继续加油吧！！！
这是你们为了新节目的一种宣传方式吗？ 要不我真想可你一点忠告。
作为一位知名的新加坡艺人， 你的行为受到大家的关注。。 有苦难言， 我相信这也是艺人朋友所要面对的问题。 你是公众人物， 把你的委屈一五一十的写在部落格上， 难道你不知道你的粉丝会为你而打抱不平吗？ 你说写的， 竟是和预告片的片断一样。 你把话摊开来说， 仅不是把你和郭良的关系劣化了呢？
艺人之路不好走， 要小心呀 ：）
说者无心，听者有意。
to me it’s a major miscommunication & misunderstanding but honestly the damage to the relationship is kinda done & sour. Can only be colleagues not friends anymore. Unless both can really put it aside & get to know each other all over again.
Hey it’s ok.I watched the episode and I felt all the tension despite him trying hard to turn the remarks into jokes.Somehow that episode seemed unapologetic and unprofessional on his side.I paid more attention to the attacks than anything else the show was trying to convey.We all know a bad guy when we see one.
There will be ppl like this in every occupation. Although I can’t really comment much as I don’t know him in person but maybe he didn’t mean it, just speak those lines to add some fun elements to the show. As you know, audience likes to watch celebrities making fun of each other especially Taiwan variety shows. Just take it easy. I like the drama Tong Zai Yi Qi as well as the character you play!
Guo Liang don’t act senior la. If you were so good, why did you end up in this little island? China so big, you cannot develop yourself as a host in your own native country?
Everyone know it is rude to interrupt someone as they are speaking. This is basic courtesy. My parents taught me. My school reinforced that. My friends practice that. As a host, and a public figure on television, Guo Liang should be ashamed of himself for such blatant rudeness.
I wonder if this is a deeply embedded culture that Guo Liang has got accustomed to and brought it over to Singapore. Correct me if i am wrong, local hosts such as Kym Ng has not done that before.
they think they are the seniors so they can do whatever they like. maybe he try too hard to be WU ZHONG XIAN? Wu zhong xian is such a great host. Want to be like him maybe need to wait forever also don’t have. From how GL talks and portrays himself as a show, he is nowhere a good host.Good host means professional. Not saying so call jokes to pull people down. Its really sad to see this happening on our tv shows. Wheres the professional? should have get another host instead. Change host better? If not people won’t feel like watching the shows he is in. Spoilt mood leh.
cheer~
Don’t care what ppl say. u already try ur best! Jia you =)
I am not your fan, neither am I a fan of his. Came to this blog because I am KPO and am curious to read the article.
Regardless of which line you are in, the need to communicate well with co-workers is a must. Miscommunication, different views and tensions are inevitable. It is ok for one to complain and to vent his frustrations online. However, as a public figure, I think it is unwise and is immature of you to write such things on your blog. I am sure other artistes ( including Guo Liang) have encountered as incidents before. What you have done is a bad move. In your line, it is always better to have a friend than an enemy.
Hm i really feel that there is a major misunderstanding between both of u. i feel like both parties have their rights and wrongs.
I have to agree tht GL uses a little too harsh words on u but wad he said was right too. there are certain stuff that u can’t always use 还好 becos to some it sounds as if u dont be bothered to ans properly you see = u dont respect the person. Yes u might like the word 还好 and yes it is the best words to use if u dont wan to offend anyone like eg. ur girl-frens ask u does the dress suits her. U wont say no straight on her face right? u will say maybe others might be better. I guess that is what GL is trying to mean.
Wad i feel is it is best tht both of u can sit down tgt and clear all the misunderstands once and for all jus like how frens shld be. Do away all the seniority stuff cos it will make the matter worst.
All the best for u =)
People leaving negatives comments about Elvin being childish or making the wrong move or whatever must be a saint themselves.
Ask yourself this.
If you think you are being bullied by a senior (in whatever kind of circumstances), would you or would you not grumble or complain to anybody???
If your answer is NO, well… continue to be your saint, swallow all the grievances down and suffer in silence.
I’m sure all of us complain. Thru whining or complaining or gossiping or bitching, you will actually feel better. So Elvin is using his own blog to vent his unhappiness and I dun see anything wrong with that.
You don’t think Elvin is mature enough to know the consequences behind this blog entry??? I’m sure Elvin has given it enough thoughts before posting it.
I’m not trying to side Elvin but any normal person who feels mistreated WILL complain or whine. Just bcos he is a celebrity he ain’t allow to post his unhappiness via his own blog??? There’s a bit too much to ask for.
The fault here lies with the media who is using this to stir trouble. Singapore media is eng eng bo dai ji do la. Just look at the number of days the Fann and Christopher’s wedding appeared in our local newspapers as headlines and you’ll know how bo liao our media is liao what.
Helllo i watch the xiao bing ying da jiang. The person is GUO LIANG… I hate him. He is a PROUD AS*****. How can he be like dis. He is bias to those china ppl… He only care for those china ppl like DAI YANG TIAN,,ZHOU YING.. Ask Guo liang Or THE BIG BAD GUY go back china please..Please don’t bully our ELVIN. He love to say 还好 is his problem how can the bad guy say he hate ppl who say 还好. This show elvin he is humble. 前辈 must know what to say ,what not to say during recording of show. This is so obverse. Elvin just ask his team if he can use the Zi yuan. The first episode ,other artist also got turn back to ask also. How can this 前辈 be so bias can say Elvin dun respect him. Please ask him to go reflect himself. So what if u are good in hosting. Let me ask u how may top 10 most popular award u haf? SO far only 1 after in the industry for 10 years??
DUN care about him, he so ugly anyways, think he so pro. -_-
As mentioned in the previous post, rmb to watch the coming episode of the chinese variety show. The “another young actor” who’s gaining high popularity now is cast in the next episode. Let’s see whether this BAD GUY will do the same to him.
elvin, you r a kind-hearted person, sometimes we have to learn how to punch people back, when they are purposely speak or do something bad to us. 我很心痛看到你写这个。。。
Although I didn’t watch the show I saw the clips… In this world there are bound to be people who makes u stronger by making life difficult. It puzzles me because the host seems like a well tempered person and I thought it was just a gimmick to make audience watch the show.
Nevertheless, remember, whatever doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger… a well respected senior and mentor (my exboss) told me this when I was badly bullied by colleagues who were more senior or same as me.
Now I moved on in my career… a better and stronger person who can take care of myself compared to the past where I was badly bullied and suffered. So life training lessons like what you went through is to bring you to the next level in life :) jiayou!
such an ass that person. all human should be treated with respect whether you are a senior or junior. what’s the company doing? WAKE UP!!! Allow this kind of person just say whatever they want. ” WU FA WU TIAN”
黄俊雄！jiayou!