“You don’t Get Me?”
April 21, 2011I’m learning to do my part and care less. There’s too much to care about, much less what others want to think of me. Perhaps, I’ve been caring a little too much, my friend said. Got a piece of advice, maybe this is sometimes not a bad attitude to adopt:
“If you don’t get me, you don’t get me.” “I don’t get you too.”
True. For you to get me, first you must want to get me right? & it’s hard cos we need heart for that.
“You don’t get me?” “Sorry, but I don’t get you too.” =)
Yoo-hoo! I hv got u all inside my heart, my mind & my soul! <3 :p
At times, it is kinda fed up when the other party don’t get you when you are explaining over and over again.
So just leave it. If you get it, that’s good. If you don’t, too bad!
all the best for stars awards!
we all got to learn to take things in our stride for a happier us! JIAYOU. forget whatever unhappiness but remember the lessons learnt
agree… me learning too. life is hard. extremely hard to meet true sincere with heart ppl who mind their own biz n jus do their own part. what to do what to do…… :) if only i know u personally…
Hi Elvin
Don’t bother to get everyone to get you…cos, most importantly, we get you, you get you and the important people get you. Life is not meant to be pleasing to everyone, I learn it the hard way.
Life is too short to be bothered by what others think or care. We live our lives the way we want – for those we care, they get us, if they don’t, then we move on.
See ya on Sunday. Jia You, OK?
For me,if i like someone,its would be forever,cos to like someone,first you must want to like the person.
No matter what others say or think,trust the one and have faith for the one who truly get you and like you :-)
I’ve got u Elvin! Woots!
Hey Elvin!
Just wna share this with you:
“About all you can do in life is be who you are.
Some people will love you for you.
Most will love you for what you can do for them,
And some, they won’t like you at all.”
& the cliche saying: “Those who mind do not matter, those who matter do not mind.”
Anyway, dropping by to thank you for taking a photo with me @ Puma Social Event on 21st Apr! I knew you were busy talking to so many different people who approached you, so sorry if I interrupted your conversation somehow! here’s the photo to share: http://on.fb.me/i25tD7
if you cant view it cause it’s on Facebook, here’s another link to it: http://plixi.com/p/94502504
thanks once again, & keep going! :)
i got u, u r so rite ! we have our own lifes to lead, not for others, but for ourselves. im really tired too.
good luck tonite!
always here for u, even if im silent ;)
Hey,
how do i noe ur next events helding?? hope to take photo with you :)… i miss my chance at i-weekly movie marathon event… :(
Ive got u too!!
Congrats on the awards from the SAs! =)
Hey Elvin!
Woot~ I can’t believe i chanced upon your blog..
Congrats on the awards you received at Star Awards!
Thanks for taking a picture with my cousin and i at the Star Awards after-party even though you had to rush off.
You came out looking GREAT in the picture! Can’t say the same for myself though. I hope I get the chance to take a nicer one with you again someday yeah? :)
Ok well, to end off, i wish you all the best in your future endeavours and i’ll continue to look out for ya on TV ;)
Take care!
Your silent supporter, the only BIG girl at the after-party,
Sarah :)
If the person is of significant to u, his/her words might bother u most. Life still goes on whatever happens. Try not to broad over similar cases again. Im sure there are more people who love to see Elvin smile again :) *ding ding* systema commercial is locked into my memory ^.^ congrats on getting the commercial contract :)
Friends are hard to come by. A true friend is even harder. ‘If u dun get me, sorry I dun get u too’. There must be a mutual understanding between friends. How to get each other right? Trust is important. It’s difficult somehow cos as what u said, we need heart for that.
True!! Jus do our part and care less. As long as we done our best, dun care what others say and how others see.
我们是为自己而活,不是为别人而活~~~
Hi Elvin,
First I wanna tell u that u are really handsome haha undeniable. It’s because of that u are one of my fav local actor. It’s sounds practical? That’s what life is about! If today u aren’t handsome, I think that many actors or actresses will not have so much fans. This is showbiz ya.
Next, I feel that in life it is not so important to want all people to get you, everyone thinks differently and have different opinions about the same thing so just be true to yourself and everyone can feel it. :)) Btw I like Zou Jie Ming he’s really cute and innocent.
Jiayou in future and get more awards during hong xing da jiang and I will be happy for you :) good luck!
Don’t think too much, it’s better to shun qi zi ran and everything will be easier to handle.
Sometimes caring less really helps us feel lighter.
I like how you can eat with your friends in a public food court without anybody reminding you of who you are. I think it’s considerate of people to just stay normal and not attract too much attention. It’s really great to see a quieter side of celebrities :)
All the best for your career!
Like what Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Understanding is a two-way street.” Understanding takes efforts from both side. Spend your efforts wholeheartedly on those who deserve & you’ll be delighted with what comes back. Anyway, everyone is free to think whatever they want.
恭喜俊雄以这样靓丽的成绩单角逐今年的红星大奖.
笑容写在你们的脸上, 在期盼奖项的同时, 更像是在 enjoy 一场盛会. 我们的男女主角成熟的态度带给我们更大的惊喜.
有一天, 当” 塑造一个个栩栩如生的人物形象 “, 成为我们的终极目标, 我们的 ” 领军人物 ” 是否就已经悄然出现了!
艺术没有国界, 艺术仍然需要一片土壤.
我们需要吸收八方营养. 我们更需要让自己扎根于一片固定的土壤, 持续不断的努力, 使之生根 发芽.
This relates to me so much… HAHAHA I love this post!
Haha, I should really learn not to take things too hard sometimes.. Learning to let go things that are not worth my time for…
Whatever it is, I’m still growing up! I’m still trying to find out what “life” really meant..
I should learn from you! Learn to just do my part and care less… Like seriously, who cares whether I care or not right? Important thing is that I DO MY PART! :)
Stay positive, Elvin! <3
Lots of Love,
Yuting.
Calm down. Stay cool.