乌龟赛跑 The Tortoise’s Race
October 13, 2011乌龟赛跑＋兔子赛跑＝龟兔赛跑
The Tortoise’s Race + The Hare’s Race = The Tortoise and Hare Race
就这么简单, 你看不到吗？
It’s that simple, can’t you see it?
乌龟赛跑不就是乌龟赛跑吗？
Can’t it be the tortoise’s race?
乌龟赛跑是以乌龟的身份和立场出席赛跑； 龟兔赛跑是以旁观者的身份和立场观看赛跑。
The tortoise’s race is first-person narrative and you participate; the tortoise and hare race is third-person narrative and you’re a spectator.
我又没说错，为什么你硬要听错, 又关语言什么事？
If I meant it this way, why must you listen to it your way, and what has language got to do with it?
为什么要给自己设定小框框？ ＝）
Why do you lock yourself inside the box? =)
Good to see u blog again so soon :-) Your blog always wake me up!
听错，可能因为没有用心聆听，或硬要误解你的意思吧。有些人就是这样，不愿听清楚，就爱把自己’以为／认为’ 的事往人家嘴里塞。
Remember e photoframe i gave u during Muar trip? Something like this:
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
Not easy but it will be over. Me too, always misunderstood by ppl, but its ok. My conscience is clear :-) Anyway, 我是打不死的蟑螂 :-)
Stay happy for people u love & people who loves u :-) u got plenty out there ;p
See u soon!
Some people can’t think out of the box therefore, they lock themselves in it. =)
When someone keeps going against you, there’s only two possibilties. Either you possess a threat to the person or he/she is jealous of you. Easy as that.
Whatever it is, you can’t please the whole world. People like you for who you are and some people just hate you for every single thing you do.
“There is only one success – to spend your life in your own way.” =)
It does not mater if those that are set out to persecute you misunderstood you. Because they never know you as a person.
Jesus said: “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 5:10.
I just love to quote the bible because God’s word is so comforting and true! =)))
Eight Beatitudes of Jesus
“Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn,
for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek,
for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they shall be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful,
for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the pure of heart,
for they shall see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called children of God.
Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
Taken from Matthew 5:3-10
=))) http://jesuschristsavior.net/Beatitudes.html
lol lol lol, well said
someting like they say: those who mind doesnt matter, those who matter, will not mind. i tink so someting like tat
very often i get into this too. and true enough people can understand your words into different forms.. sometime it just so simple thing and they can think to a million things. sometime they can twist your meaning to such an art that it actually turn out meaning that way. or they turn things around to even make you eat their words and meaning which you don’t even say a thing about. thats how scary it is. internationally there are these people.. well, these are people we can’t avoid.
but, i did sit down and think.. sometime ourself might think alittle too much of what other says too. i must admit. there are times that we ourself can be in that position. i guess, it really depends alot of what the other person had gone through or what kind of image of you in their mind to think of your meaning wrongly or add on.
and yes elvin, some.. can be so died obvious that we have no way to understand them wrongly. be it given chances and numbers of times.. it just can’t be wrong. even they might seems good.
anyway, it is not always easy to find someone who can understand you well. we’re all different. if not, finding someone would be an easy matter. yea? =)
It”s the matter of whether you want to understand or not,if those people understand,they won”t lock themselves inside the box,those people are only trying to bring you down,and they choose not to understand it,why bother with such people,they are not worth it.
People who pretend not to believe in what you say,these types of people are so scary,its better to stay away from them,or they will hurt you again…
But i am sure you know who you can believe in rite? :-)
所谓”一粒米养百种人”，这世界上每个人的心态都不一样。
有的时候不要去在意对方是真的看不到还是…可能就是故意
的硬要听错扭曲一句话或针对某些人吧。
Elvin,你相信自己没有说错,就不要去在乎他人说什么。
=想念你的笑容丫:))
‘to effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world. And use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others’ Anthony Robbins
Some are just different and not so easy to communicate with them. But what to do :)
=)
hello elvin!!.u are pefectly right :D
你觉得你没说错，可是别人意会不到，也无能为力，要学会接纳别人的看法，站在别人的立场 试着了解他们， 世界上没有百分百合你心灵相通的人
现在是民主的社会，每个人都有言论自由。不要为了某人的话让自己不开心。有批评的时候， 就当成是一种教晦，从中学习。争辩不能解决问题，不如让它慢慢淡化。我曾经看过一个很有趣的故事，是关于一个大学教授去旅行的故事。某天，这位教授出海去了。在船上，教授问了船夫两个问题。1）教授：你会数学吗？船夫：我不会 2）教授：你会科学吗？船夫： 我不会。教授说那么你的人生就少了六分之二。突然，狂风来了，船不停的晃，眼看就要沉船了。这时，船夫问教授：你会游泳吗？教授：我不会。船夫说：那么你的人生就少了六分之六。
所以我们不能以自己的能力去批评和衡量别人，相反的其他人也一样。不需要再为了这些批评，而让自己继续辛苦了。希望以上的故事可以让你有新的启示和领悟。
u are right!