真正拥有 to have truly owned
December 22, 2011“当你拥有的时候，你已经开始的在失去。”
“当你不再害怕失去， 你就真正拥有了。”
爱情是这样， 事业是这样， 名气是这样， 人生也是这样。
“When you own something, you are already beginning to lose it.”
“When you no longer fear losing, that’s when you have truly owned.”
Love’s like that, career’s like that, fame’s like that, life’s like that too.
“当你不曾用有就不会害怕失去” .
Yay~ Ur writing once again..;)
What u say totally agreed.. oh well… Live n Let Live..
因为有矢有得才会懂得珍稀。
冬至快乐!
hi Elvin,
“When you own something, you are already beginning to lose it.”
I saw this phrase in 偶像据，我不可能爱上你。。quite nice leh the show… oooppps！ *digressed…
why fear losing, i rather lose it than nvr own it before right?
may everyone own dozens =)
I fear losing E & Es, so tt means i hv not owned & i wun lose, yet, right?
I have lost so much, i have also gained alot, including my weight! Hahaha
No matter how much i have now, i wld feel content, cos i might be unlucky, but im more fortunate than many bah :-) Furthermore there r ppl who truly cares ;p
Anyway, with E & Es ard, my life gonna b brighter >.<
Take care, hope to c u soon!
Fame is only temporary,it”s wont last long.Work is important but there is other job beside being in showbiz.
Love is not something you wished will have,is a matter of fate,destiny and the right person.What meant to be will be.
Happy Birthday to you! Wishing u all the best for the year ahead and Star Awards 2012 next April!
With great expectations, comes with possible great disappointments. I find this especially true when it comes to dealing with people.
Furthermore, if a person is very very anxious about the performance, it is very likely that it will turn out worse.
Performance bell curve.
Happy Birthday Elvin! =)
looking forward to ur “lang” role in Unriddle 2. Haha
happy filming during Christmas! =)
Happy birthday to you! Wish u have a bright future and stay cheerful everyday! its your smile that charm me to support u :)))
uhm hm, the “当你拥有的时候，你已经开始的在失去。”phrase, i used it before too. got it from, 我不可能爱上你 too.
which i find it very true, it’s just the matter when you’re going to lose it..
Glad to have you people, <3
Happy birthday and all the best in your upcoming and on-arrival's drama, we're looking forward. Merry X'mas (:
<3 loveyou most.
xoxo.
Dear Elvin,
As I have been feeling very down recently, your post makes me ponder, an encouragement quote. :)
Looking at u & your performances cheer me up a lot, naturally. ^.^
It’s your bday today!!!
Happy bday to u!!! Wish u stay healthy, happy and cute always!!! And all the best in your career path. Jia you!!!
:)
Hi Elvin,
if u don’t own anything, then nothing is there for u to lose. But if u learn how to accept your loss, u have gained a new experience on the way.
I’m currently enjoying your role in code of honour…good luck in the acting of the upcoming unriddle 2, i’m looking forward to it!
Wishing u a very happy birthday and a merry christmas! Hope that today will be a special one for u! :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! =) <3
Annyeonghaseyo!
Greetings from Korea!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELVIN!!!!!
A birthday is a day truly own by you.
Wishing you love & happiness on this special day & this Christmas season. =)
在这特别的一天
别忘了对妈妈说声谢谢
因为三十一年前的今天
是妈妈很辛苦的一天 =)
“当你拥有的时候，你已经开始的在失去。”
“当你不再害怕失去， 你就真正拥有了。”
人也有可能因为这样的想法而不再想办法拥有。当你拥有了而开始慢慢的失去时，那失去的过程中总会让你拥有了一些意想不到收获。这些收获时好时坏，但一切都是人生中的一部分。害怕失去也会让我们知道他／她／它的珍贵价值，而因知道没有任何事物是永久的，我们才会更懂得去珍惜。当完全失去了，那最初的害怕不再是害怕，而是成了很多很多记在心中的完美回忆。那就是曾拥有过的美。 :)
我也就是这样：就算知道会失去或心疼，也会想法去拥有。也会去珍惜每一刻，让那害怕失去的感觉淡化。等到真正失去了，就不害怕也不会有任何的遗憾。这才是我 “当你不再害怕失去， 你就真正拥有了。” 的意义吧。
而这一句 “当你拥有的时候，你已经开始的在失去。” 我可不赞同喔。哈哈。:)
All is just a matter of perception.
圣诞节快了 ! ♥
不曾拥有，是不是就不会失去呢？
如果不去尝试拥有，又怎么知道不能天长地久呢？
可是往往一旦拥有了，可能就想回到原点~~~
为什么？
“When you no longer fear losing, that’s when you have truly owned.”
don’t know why, but the above phrase stuck out the most.don’t really agree with u on that though,cos if u don’t fear losing then does this mean that that thing does not mean much to u and hence you will tend to take it for granted?if that happens,can u say that u have truly owned it?hmm,i duno but that’s just my personal opinion..it just feels as if people always fear losing things that are the most important to them,be in family,riches or health..
anyway in this world we cannot truly own anything,cos eventually in death we can’t even own our body anyways right? *shrugs* *musings of life*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RB9usYkqDEY&feature=related
MERRY CHRISTMAS ELVIN AND ELVES~!! LOL!!!!
Happy Boxing Day
Merry Xmas (belated)
Happy Birthday (belated)
Owning and Losing is part and parcel of life.
Let us not worry nor think too much.
Cherish the moment and enjoy the moment.
For us, being able to be with you for just a while is enough. Thank you for the beautiful memories.
Interesting post. Agree on the second one, but not quite on the first, at least not always true when it comes to things like love (all kinds).
Nice blog, keep it up and Merry..errm Boxing Day.. haha
dear elvin……… i am a member of elvinology……… i know recently u organise a surprise outing for your fans to chinatown market and chinese garden……… but i am wondering why i am not being inform?? i call my friend who is also a member of elvinology and she also say nobody inform her……… why are some members being left out?? :-(
Most importantly is to cherish and treasure what we have now, not taking things for granted. (:
Happy belated birthday and Xmas!
Hope you’d have an awesome one!
Xoxo. XD
hey, this is the first time i’m visiting your site, and i’m really blown off by everythg you’ve posted. your entries are so through-provoking, i had certain epiphanies after reading the older posts. keep it up man, your blog is an inspiration. :)
happy new year! may 2012 be yet another amazing journey that we can all learn valuable lessons from. :)
Dear Disappointed,
Just FYI… The surprise outing was opened to those who had signed up for our yearly gathering. And we did sent out a sms to those who had signed up to inform them about the outing. At least twice for those who did not respond by our cut-off date. You might also wish to check if your membership had expire with us or is the contact u left on our application form correctly if you have not got updates from us for a long time. If u have any doubts, pls feel free to get in touch with us. :)
Hi Disappointed, pls feel free to drop a mail to elvinology@rocketmail.com to confirm or update your particulars should u feel uncomfortable to leave your name here. :-) We would be most happy to assist. =)
Im glad that my idol did the right thing.
Dear Elvinology, I also found out I was not invited to e surprise outing which Elvin organise on 17dec even though I am a member. :( I wanted to attend e 18dec gathering but I could not sign up cos i need to help out at my uncle wedding. It’s really kind & thoughtful of Elvin to organize a surprise outing for all his supporters to do something meaningful together despite his busy filming schedule. But why is e surprise outing only open to members who sign up for e gathering & not open to all official members of Elvinology?
Dear tjm,
The surprise outing was counted as a part of the gathering as well. Just that due to time constrain, it was spiltted into 2 days. But still considered as a same package. We collected funds which was needed for it too. So to be fair we can only take in those who had signed up & PAID for the gathering.
Hope this clarify your misunderstanding.
Should you have anymore doubts pls feel free to contact us. =)
Hihi tjm, i understand u were not able to attend the 18 Dec gathering due to other commitments. However, as clarified above, the outing was Part 1 of our 2011 gathering.
Should you need further clarifications, you might wish to email direct to elvinology@rocketmail.com so that we can better answer to your queries.
Dear supporters/fans of Elvin, kindly email your queries to Elvinology instead, since this is Elvin’s personal blog & we might not be able to reply promptly :-) Your kind understanding would be much appreciated.
Huiyun
Dear Elvin,
Happy 2012 to u!~!~!~
May this new year birngs u health, happiness and dreams come true.
Same to all Elvin fans too!
^.^
hi, i read ur new known u had “fang sheng” the animals at ur birthday. so share with u about
“Two-headed tortoise” at African
http://news.malaysia.msn.com/year-in-pictures/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5502970&page=6#image=3
Perhaps a better word for ‘owned’ would be ‘control’.
hahaha… no 2nd word about it. it totally right. well, i really mean and feel its totally right. xD
Happy New Year Elvin!
Perfect.
Hi, saw your spread in i-weekly… Is your dog a Pom-shih tzu mix? Couldn’t really understand Chinese. They look awfully like my malteses and their profiles are so like mine!
不要难过。。。应该珍惜拥有。你的家人 和亲人。
Agree…. When u start seeing things this way. Simply mean u are truly “knowing”….