Sometimes the best response is no response at all.
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Especially when there are differing viewpoints presented, and you know that the person is headstong and hot tempered. Rather avoid a volcano eruption and unnecessary strife.
Qualities Needed in Trials
Therefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Sometimes some words are better left unsaid.
“People are masters of the unspoken words but slaves to the spoken.”
Silence is golden and the ultimate weapon of power.
Quite true :)
But for me, certain things I prefer to have response, whether good or bad, at least let me know how u think and what’s the outcome. I dun like to be kept in suspense. This type of feeling is jus like hanging me in the air, cannot go up and come down.
BTW, thanks for the pineapple tarts :) its really nice and my family like it.
Totally agreed,for some situation,it”s best to have no response at all.
Wish you a happy, healthy & properous lunar new year! May the dragon year brings u lots of luck in your career & your miss rite will appear soon. ^.^
You say it best when you say nothing at all.
Many a times, silence can be gold too….
True enough that sometimes no response is the best response, regardless of whether it is a call, an email, a message etc. However, if we are the ones expecting a response and became the receiving end of a no response, will we still feel that no response is the best response?
hey, cheer up yea.
Got back from post night, heard what happened.
Please send my regards to your family.
Take good care of yourself and stay strong!
very true. just keep silent and breathe deep…
Heard about the misfortune already. :(
I’m not good with words, especially in a situation like this.
But my deepest condolences to you and your family.
You have to be strong!
Don’t worry, after the rain, there will always be sunshine again.
Take care and i will continue to support you.
All the best! <3
- xoxo, <3
Just need to response to your loved ones is enough. May sunshine be with you :)
The hour before dawn is not the darkest. Actually, the air during this moment is the freshest, coolest and sweetest (through years of experience as I used to wake up at 3am and studied until 7am during my JC/Uni times :))
By the way, I would like to thank whoever out there in this blog for comforting me when I broke up with my ex.
I am much happier now. In fact, my current one cherishes me a lot and accept my weaknesses :)
Also, I have re-found my hobbies….oil painting, chinese ink painting and piano…..my day is no longer just surrounded by work and bf…….so well-balanced now!
Once again, thank you :)
You must be going through a very trying and tough period now. You will have to stay strong, as you have an important role now, to look after your family. Keep the happy memories with you and let that be your strength as you journey on through life. We are here, to move with you.
Can’t wait to see u for the upcoming 9pm drama :)
I agree with you, because in certain time we have to be silent, it’s depend where you are, what are you doing and deal with who, in every situation we must think first before we do any things or what we suppose to said, we always support you, keep moving in the next level :)
…but a smile or a gesture of acknowledgement would be better then total silent.
You will have me with you.
Just wondering how you are doing.. Take care and 加油! =)
=( Miss you.
Do you miss the elves too?
Hope that you find your inspiration to blog soon.
Silence wields a lot more power than we know… And some stuff are better left unsaid.
I went through before…” Life is like a book no matter how many smiles and tears there are, its always got to end”
Look on the brighter side.
Stay healthy & be safe.
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